We all have "that guy." The one guy that no matter how long it's been since we've seen him, his call can send us off the deep end. For some girls it isn't as bad as others, even if you wouldn't go back, you reminisce on the good times you had while you were together. For some people, it gives you a memory of a good time in your life and you go back to how happy you are now. For others, it is a constant battle of whether or not you are meant to be and if it's worth it to go back one more time.

My Friend,

I know you think you can't live without him, but you can. If you decide to be with this guy, no matter how toxic he can be, your friends will still love you. They want you to be happy and if he makes you happy, we will be here to pick up the pieces each and every time they fall. Even though we don't ever want to see you treated like you have been, if you can accept the fact that things like this may happen from time to time, all we can do is support you. All we want is to see you happy. On the other hand, if you decide that you don't want to take that anymore, we will take every opportunity to talk shit about him and burn his things that we can. What we really want to say is, do what makes you happy because even if it isn't the best thing for you, we have all been there and bounced back from it. You either end up with the boy of your dreams, or with your best friends looking for the boy of your dreams. Live it up, do you, we love you.

Sincerely,

Your girls