To my Cristina,
Leaving each other for college was difficult. We spent literally every single day together, and then we had to separate. I remember sobbing on the drive back to my house because I wouldn't be able to make the easy commute to your house on a daily basis. I was petrified that we would end up as one of those best friend pairs that promise each other that they will be friends forever and then drift apart. We wouldn't be best friends anymore, just acquaintances that meet for coffee every once in a while when the other is in town.
I was afraid that going to two separate colleges would break the bond that we had formed. We wouldn't be able to talk or see each other every day. I wouldn't be able to tell you every single stupid detail of my day. I wouldn't be able take you shopping with me when I needed an outfit for something. I was afraid that everything would be different.
But our bond withstood my doubts. Even though we don't talk to each other every single day, it hasn't changed a thing. We always seem to pick up right where we left off. I think that we could be across the country from each other and still stay just as close. I text you when I need you, and you do the same with me. We FaceTime when we have some free time between homework and exams. I am glad that you made new friends at school that make you happy.
You have new people to spend your time with and whom you can tell all the little details of your day. I thought at first that I would be a little jealous of them. These new people get to spend time with you every day like I used to. You go to them to talk about things that you usually come to me to talk about.
But I realized quickly that just because you make new friends doesn't mean you get rid of old ones. We still talk about everything with each other. You are always there when I need someone to talk to, and I do the same for you. But I am glad these friends came into your life to be there for you in ways that I can't. I hope that you enjoy your college experience and make a ton of new memories. Just remember that I am here for you along the way, no matter what.
Love,
Your Meredith
