Living Far Away From Parents in College

An Open Letter To My Parents As I Go To School Thousands of Miles Away

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Last fall was my first semester at my university and things had been going so well. I had settled into classes, met new people, forged new friendships, and tried new things. My life felt like it was finally going where I wanted it to go. In college, I finally feel in control of my own destiny. However, when fall break rolled around and I said goodbye to my friends one by one, I realized that I wouldn't be going home like they would be. I felt detached from my home.

My entire first semester, I didn't go home once. I didn't even go home for thanksgiving because my brother and I thought that it would be too far. Instead, we visited family in Chicago for fall break and went to my aunt and uncle's house for Thanksgiving. I love being in a new environment, but I think it's made me realize how much I love spending time with my parents. I know that a lot of people say this, but they really are "the cool parents." My mom and dad flew across the country from California to Virginia for parents weekend when a friend of mine's parents didn't come from a neighboring state. They hosted a tailgate for my brother and I to bring our friends. They genuinely care about the people we've met here and the journey we're on. They know how much the University of Virginia means to us because they met here when they went to school here. It filled me with pride when my father leaned toward me and told me "I'm so proud of all of the friends you've met here. They're all good and motivated people. That tells me a lot about your character and your goals."

My parents have always told me that the people I surround myself with the most, I become most like. However, I just want to be more like them. They inspire me to work hard and they've made me the person I am today. I think that's why it's so hard to be so far away from them. Being with them feels like home.

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When You Make A Girl An Aunt, You Change Her World In All The Best Ways

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest girl in the world.


My brother and his wife recently blessed our family with the sweetest bundle of joy on planet earth. OK, I may be a little bias but I believe it to be completely true. I have never been baby crazy, but this sweet-cheeked angel is the only exception. I am at an age where I do not want children yet, but being able to love on my nephew like he is my own is so satisfying.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a very protective person.

From making sure the car seat is strapped in properly before every trip, to watching baby boy breathe while he sleeps, you'll never meet someone, besides mommy and daddy of course, who is more concerned with the safety of that little person than me.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her a miniature best friend.

There is something about an aunt that is so fun. An aunt is a person you go to when you think you're in trouble or when you want something mom and dad said you couldn't have. An aunt is someone who takes you to get ice cream and play in the park to cool down after having a temper tantrum. I can't wait to be the one he runs to.

When you make a girl an aunt, she gets to skip on the difficulty of disciplining.

Being an aunt means you get to be fun. Not to say I wouldn't correct my nephew if he were behaving poorly, but for the most part, I get to giggle and play and leave the hard stuff for my brother.

When you make a girl an aunt, you give her the best listening ears.

As of right now I only listen to the sweet coos and hungry cries but I am fully prepared to listen to all the problems in his life in the future.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the best advice giver.

By the time my nephew needs advice, hopefully, I will have all of my life lessons perfected into relatable stories.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her a number-one fan

Anything you do in life sweet boy, I will be cheering you on. I already know you are going to do great things.

When you make a girl an aunt, she learns what true love is.

The love I have for my nephew is so pure. Its the love that is just there. I don't have to choose to show love every day, I don't have to forgive, I don't have to worry if it is reciprocated, it is just there.

When you make a girl an aunt, you make her the happiest person in the world.

I cannot wait to watch my precious nephew grow into the amazing person that I know he is going to be.

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A Poem: My Mother

In honor of Mother's Day, that was on the 12th, here is a poem dedicated to my mother.


To the only person who can be my mentor, friend, and leader at the same time

To someone who would make me read my own books before bedtime

And puts everything down to make sure there is a smile on my face

To the person that I find impossible to ever replace.

Somehow you are always right even when it seems wrong

And when the worst does happen, how do you still manage to stay so strong?

I'm not only impressed but inspired by you

Knowing that somehow you'll always know me better than I do.

When I'm frustrated and annoy you, you simply try to understand me

Because you have always told me that even when you can't understand, plain acceptance is the key

You have listened to all my laughs, heard me cry, and felt my emotions like they were your own

You are the only reason I am joyous and the security I need to know that I am never alone.

To the only person who has truly taught me how to live

And watched me grow and make mistakes yet still knows how to forgive

Because that's who she is, certainly not like any other

There are many women but none like my own mother.

Happy Mother's Day!

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