As the oldest of three, I've "paved the way" for my siblings over the years. That means I got the most time with Mom and Dad, as well as the strictest side of Mom and Dad. The oldest child has many privileges that the younger ones don't, but with being the first born comes larger responsibility. Over the years, I've learned a few things about being the oldest:

1: You Are A Built-In Babysitter

You may even almost feel like a third parent at times, which is actually a very good way to learn responsibility (but can cause stress at times, haha).

2: Your Mistakes Will Be More Noticed Than Your Younger Siblings'

You set "the example", and that will be pointed out whether it be good or bad.

3: Your Parents Will Be Stricter With You Than With Your Younger Siblings

When I was younger I wasn't even allowed to watch SpongeBob. My little brother watched Step Brothers when he was six...

4: You Will Feel Protective Over Them

Nobody is allowed to mess with your brother/sister except you.

5: Age Gaps Can Be Hard, and You Will Likely Become Closer When You are Older

I am five years older than my sister and seven older than my brother, so we gave a large age gap. The older they get, the closer we become. We now have had the same teachers, we like the same music, etc. We have a lot more to bond over which is super fun.

6: Even Though They Can Be Huge Pains, They Are The Greatest Gift

Built in best friends.

Being the oldest is part of who I am. They say the oldest child is typically a type A personality, fearful of new situations, motivated, organized, anxiety prone, mature, dependent on others for approval, etcetera. Many of these apply to me, some don't - but being the oldest has definitely helped shape my personality and taught me a lot. Though it can be tough at times, it's still one of my favorite titles in life... I love you Ainsley and Austin! :)