You did it. After a week of constant conversation, hurt feet, lots of smiling, and possibly some tears, you made it. It was a crazy week of ups and downs, but you got here: sorority life. Maybe you've dreamt of this day since middle school or never saw yourself as a sorority girl. Whatever you thought, bid day was probably a blur, for the better or for the worst. For some, you knew that there's no place you'd rather be. For others, you saw a bunch of strangers and were overwhelmed with the hypeness of it all.
Sorority life is probably a little weird, if you're honest. You're surrounded by people who are supposed to be your "best friends," but right now, they feel like strangers. And that's totally OK. It's OK to be a little unsure of your decision right now. It's OK to be intimidated by the girls who are now your sisters. It's OK to not feel exactly at home quite yet. You're in a new, different stage of life. For anyone, that can be a little scary.
Sorority life isn't captured in the Instagrams of "candid" laughter or in the movies. Loneliness, fear of the unknown, and insecurities are real, even in the midst of so many people. It's easy to forget that what we see on social media and the facade of happiness isn't reality. In reality, it's hard to make friends with girls who are strangers.
But be encouraged that this is just the beginning of a journey. This is just the beginning of your friendship with these girls. This is just the beginning of understanding the pieces and parts of sorority life (YAY traditions and songs you get to learn now). This is just the beginning of getting to know people beyond the smile they held on their face all of recruitment week.
In this time of newness and uncertainty, it's easy to shrink back in fear and doubt. But do your best to reach out to the girls in your sorority. It's new to all of you, so chances are, others feel like you. They're looking for someone to go to meeting with. They're looking for a new lunch buddy. They're looking for someone to begin a friendship from scratch. It's all scary and different. It's out of your comfort zone, but can be incredibly rewarding. These girls are here to support and encourage you; as cliche as that is, it's true. Seek community within your sorority, because friendships can be formed here that you couldn't find anywhere else.
It's OK to not be OK in this point of sorority life. Friendships don't occur in the span of a week. Be encouraged and know that this sorority will (hopefully) give you the opportunity to serve others, love others, and encourage others in a new and different way.
