You have the bad boy that girls flock to, the nerd, the jocks and the nice guy. For years it has always been a stigma that, “nice guys finish last,” that no one wants to be with the nice guy. I am here to rebut that statement.

Nice guys rule the world in my opinion. To find a nice guy makes a girl the luckiest girl in the world. When you have a boy who, to others, is viewed as the "nice guy" you are treated with respect and you are truly loved. The nice guy doesn’t play games because game playing isn’t in him to do. He is a true man and a gentleman. He takes you and shows you off and you are truly the only girl who matters.

When you are dealing with a boy who is not a nice guy you never really get to feel this great and healthy relationship feeling. It may seem as though he’s the “man of your dreams” but saying hurtful words, playing head games and being cheated on is not the way to live through life. Girls are worth so much more than that. If you are reading this and you have a guy like that in your life, I can’t tell you who to be with, but I can tell you to think about how your man really treats you.

Nice guys are always there. You probably know a few of them. They are not the guy whom you matched on Tinder the other night, they are probably the ones that you call "just a friend," or the one who asked you on a cute date a few weeks ago that you turned down because you are waiting for the bad boy to call you back. I hear girls say all the time “good boys do not exist,” but yes they really do.

If you only talk to the guy that you know will break your heart then that is all you will ever get. There are nice guys out there. It may seem impossible to find at moments in your life, but believe me there is a population of good boys near you. You just need to start searching for them in different places. Not at the bar, on Tinder or the next party that you are invited to.

I know many guys who are great! Some have girlfriends and others do not, the ones with girlfriends treat their girls so sweet and the guys that do not can’t wait to start treating their future girl the way they have been raised to do. Meeting my nice guy has been the best thing that has ever happened to me. He knows me better than I know myself. He knows my favorite foods, he makes me laugh, he’s close to my parents and he listens.

Having a guy who actually listens to you is the key to a healthy relationship. If you guys can truly communicate, care and listen to one another you truly have a beautiful relationship. At this time I would like to thank all of the nice guys this world has to offer. Especially my boyfriend - thanks for being so good to me.