I love living in Northern New Jersey. What I don't love is the awful reputation our state has. It doesn't smell, we aren't obnoxious, and there are so many beautiful places here. People don't realize that New Jersey isn't just MTV's "Jersey Shore" or the confines of Newark Airport — there is so much to this beautiful state, and most of the stereotypes we're associated with are completely false, for example, "Dirty Jersey."
The following are just some of the gorgeous places New Jersey has to offer:
1. Ramapo Valley County Reservation
Located in Bergen County (my home!), this 3,000-plus acre area has hiking trails that are beautiful at all times of the year. In the spring and summer, the waterfalls are fresh and scenic within the woodsy area. Crisp, golden leaves make for a classic autumn scene in the fall. In the winter, though it may be too cold to wander, the snow that cakes the land is stunning.
Beaten paths snake up a mountainous forest, and completely flat, paved paths attract kids, adults and especially dog owners. The first time I went for some leisurely hiking in the Ramapo Mountains, I was immediately reminded of Ithaca's gorges because of the lush trees and numerous waterfalls.
2. Jersey Shore, Spring Lake, et cetera
When people who aren't from here hear "New Jersey," it's almost inevitable for them to think "Jersey Shore." And when they hear Jersey Shore, they immediately associate MTV's depiction of the Jersey Shore. There are two major flaws here: 1) New Jersey isn't just the shore. I have only been to the shore twice, and it's almost two hours away from home, and 2) MTV's shore is NOT the reality, despite being called reality TV.
The first time I went to the shore, I was even shocked. I half-expected it to be like MTV's version, but it was the total opposite. I went to the beach at Spring Lake, a quaint, charming town with an immaculate beach and boardwalk. It was so quiet all I could hear was the sound of waves crashing, and the sand was bright and clean. The boardwalk housed a couple restaurants and a beach supply store — no bars, clubs or any sketchiness. The shore that MTV brainwashed people into thinking was all of the shore (and the whole state for that matter) is called Seaside Heights. And yes, while it does have a party atmosphere, people aren't stumbling around the boardwalk in broad daylight like the "Jersey Shore" wants you to imagine.
To recap: New Jersey ≠ The Jersey Shore, and The Jersey Shore ≠ MTV's "Jersey Shore." So please don't be that guy to shout, "Oh you're from Joisey? Y'mean the Jersey Shore?" when someone says they're from New Jersey. It will not be received well.
3. The Palisades
The Palisades Interstate Parkway may be a highway, but it's the prettiest goddamn highway I've ever seen. Shaded by luscious trees and parallel to the Hudson River, I'm proud to call it my commute into Manhattan. There are even lookout areas on the sides of the highway so you can get out of your car and admire the breathtaking view of the city skyline.
Also in the Palisades are hiking trails at the Palisades Interstate Park. These trails are surprisingly rugged and act as access to various parks and an infinite number of views along the mountains. It's just amazing to look out at the city almost facing off with the mountains, with the river cutting between, keeping the peace. This area is basically the epitome of what it's like to live in Northern Jersey — the naturally beautiful coexisting with urban, metropolitan living.
4. Saddle River Area Bike Path
One of my personal favorites in Bergen County is the Saddle River Area Bike Path. Stretching six miles along 577-acre linear park system, running through six towns and five different parks. The paths function for walkers, runners, bikers and even rollerbladers. Small bridges cross over creeks, and benches are scattered all along the path so you can stop and admire the serene scenery. Since most of it is fairly flat, even I was able to bike the six miles and back within an afternoon — as long as I packed a picnic.
5. The Garden State
Something people forget ALL THE TIME is the fact that we are called "The Garden State." GARDENING? FARMS? FRESH FRUIT AND VEGETABLES? YES, all of these things are what New Jersey is known for — especially our tomatoes. Sadly, as urbanization continues to conquer, my county is losing family-run farms, but most of NJ is still going strong. Going pumpkin picking in a real pumpkin patch is a totally normal tradition growing up, as is apple picking, peach picking and the occasional tractor ride.
The next time you start to insult New Jersey or you meet somewhere from here, remember these things and recall these images. Because New Jersey is a unique and beautiful place ... and the people are pretty cool, too.
