It seems unrealistic that so much heartbreak can plague one community in a brief span of under five years. It seems unrealistic that three beloved students can be lost within four years to tragic events. And it seems beyond realistic that insensitivity continues to linger through the youth of our society, despite so much sadness.

On September 30, 2016, the students of Shelton High School were halted from their study to a chilling message from Headmaster Dr. Beth Smith over the intercom. Jonathan Sabo had unexpectedly passed away the evening before, September 29. Friend, band member, and son - gone.

Silence fell among the classrooms, hallways, and offices except for the dull whimper of sorrowful students. With heavy hearts, teachers comforted students, students comforted students, and students comforted teachers.

These feelings, Shelton High School knows too well, not even a year gone since the passing of Edmund Conklin, Class of 2016, and in years prior, the unexpected death of Kristjan Ndoj, also a member of the Class of 2016.

Rumors and questions always arise, but the most important question being, “Why?” Why does so much death and controversy plague one community? Why do people believe violence is the answer? Why doesn’t anyone speak up?

Though I am not directly affected, friends, classmates, and teachers all are burdened with the chore of coping with another student’s death. Seeing the people I love and care for upset, makes every situation personal.

Now, this isn’t a simple recollection of events in the past years, this is a proclamation of universal kindness. Kindness is a word that is often used loosely, but kindness is the foundation of friendship and unity. Now, more than ever we must realize the effects our actions have on others and to always offer a helping hand, a listening ear, and a warming hug. These recent events have truly been eye openers to everyone affected in any type of way. We learn that not only can the simple action of being kind is what’s best, but that it can save lives as well. Thank you to anyone who has shown support to any person if their time of grief.