Why My Long Distance Friends Are Still My Best Friends

Why My Long Distance Friends Are Still My Best Friends

I am beyond proud of how far we've come in what feels like such a short time.
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One of the things that I found myself thinking about the most, in regards to moving away to college, was that fact that I would no longer be in the same state as any of my closest friends, and this was going to be something very new to me. I lived in the same town my whole life and went to school with most of the same people all the way up through senior year. I could not have been more excited to start a new life in a new city at my dream school, but I knew that there was going to be a part of my life that could never be replaced. The times I spent with my closest friends, whether I'd known them since kindergarten or just for the four years of high school, were some of the best times of my life because I felt completely comfortable with these people. Just being in their presence never failed to brighten my day. I knew that the change was not going to be easy to deal with, but I was never scared that we'd lose touch.

Since we've moved away, we've made new friends and become involved in a whole other world that no college counseling meeting could have prepared us for. There is no doubt that we've changed as a result of the new people we're involved with and the new area that surrounds us. We've had good times and bad times, but never have I been scared of us leaving each other behind. We may not text every day, but when we do, it feels just as casual and comfortable as ever, and I am beyond thankful for that.

The support that I get from my best friends is invaluable, and I truly wish them the best as well. Every time we speak or get together when we're back home, it feels like picking up exactly where we left off. To me, that's what friendship is. It doesn't matter that some of us a are a long car or plane ride away from each other. I am beyond proud of us having come so far in what feels like such a short time. We are making new people out of ourselves, but that's okay because we've always been there when we needed each other, and that is not going to change anytime soon.

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A Thank You To My Boyfriend's Family

Because you are so important to him, you are important to me.
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This one isn't easy to sit down and write because nothing I could say would do all of you justice in the way that I would hope I could. These are just words, but I hope that I am able to always show my thank you to you by treating him like the prince he is.

I can replay the moment of meeting each and every one of you all over and over in my head like it was yesterday. I was so extremely nervous every single time and I was trying to gather all the "right" things to say that would leave a good, first-lasting impression and that at the end of the day, you all would like me.

I think one of the most important basis and hopes in my relationship is that my significant other's family likes who I am. This is so important to me because whatever is important to him is equally important to me and your thoughts of me are crucial to our relationship.

The second I walked in the door, I was overwhelmed—overwhelmed with such a love. I had no idea at that point in time just how much you would all mean to me and how thankful I am for all of you!

Thank you for constantly making me laugh and feel at home.

Whenever I'm coming over for a family gathering or just to hang out, I know right off that I am walking into a world of laughter and good times are right beside that. You are all so entertaining and always have a good story to tell me. I can't name one time where I didn't feel like I was home.

And I appreciate the sweet, embarrassing photos and stories about my boyfriend that you all share with me! Even if it is by a photo, I have a glimpse of what his life has always been like thanks to each and every one of you individually.

Thank you for sharing your special moments in life with me.

You don't ever have to, but you invite me anyway. Whether it's just a family gathering, a birthday, or a holiday, I am thankful to have spent those times celebrating these moments in life alongside such amazing people. It's humbling and heartwarming to be a part of memories so unforgettable that you all share and that you have welcomed me to be a part of. They are days that I will never forget and have a place in my heart forever.

Thank you for always being there for him.

Since we have started dating, I have watched the way that you guys love him. I have watched the individual relationships and moments that you share with him make a difference in who he is. I have seen you all love and support him, no matter what he was doing.

With everything that comes along in life, this has been a simple reminder of an unconditional, loving, sacrificing family that is also the best support system. You are not only impacting him, but me, too.

Thank you for welcoming me in like your own.

Whenever you have to brave up and meet your significant other's family, I can say, for myself, that I didn't know what to expect. As I'm sure, none of you did when meeting me. Today, I catch myself wondering why I even worried in the first place. You all have welcomed me in your own ways and made me feel right at home. It is not always easy to do that with just anyone, but you have all taken the time to get to know me. And now I know that if I ever needed anything, I can call one of you.

Thank you for letting me date him.

I am most thankful for this. Thank you for sharing him with me and giving me a chance to show you all how important he is to me. I never thought that I would luck out and meet someone as special, kind, and wonderful as he is, but I did.

You have supported our relationship, given me a chance to love him, and welcomed me to new adventures in love and family. I have the upmost gratitude for each of you. You are the most wonderful, welcoming, and loving family. I am overjoyed to be able to experience just a glimpse of this life with him and with all of you.

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A Goodbye To My Closest Friends

Leaving the girls who have always been by my side

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The moment we've been dreading but also been counting down for all our lives

The time is here, it's time to say goodbye


All going separate ways, finding our own path

Our time here will soon be in the past

Pursuing degrees to be turned into jobs

Hopefully you will still have time to call


"Face time me every night" we say

"We can't lose touch, okay?!"


Thank you technology

It's like my best friends can still be with me

There are hundreds of miles between us

The adjustment is going to be tough

No longer within 5 minutes of each other

Who would've thought we'd ever been further?

A sad goodbye that will turn into the time of our lives


But for now, everyone cries

Packing up the car, getting ready for the trip

Say goodbye to our state, we will all miss

Time to move to our new homes

We will no longer be so close

But nothing can loosen our bond


Our winter and spring breaks better correspond

I'll be dying to see you

I'll miss you so much, you have no clue


Of course, at college we'll make new friends

But best friends forever means this friendship won't ever end


Thank you for all the laughs, time with you was never dull

Thinking about all our memories, my heart is full

I still want to hear every detail of your life even though I will no longer experience it beside you

Thinking about being away from you for months just doesn't feel true

The first couple weeks will be hard

Pictures of us hung in my dorm, you'll always be in my heart

It's time to go find ourselves


Go do things, go on adventures, have stories to tell

I love you best friend

and I will love you until time ends

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