Long distance sucks. We all have heard this hundreds of times throughout our lives, but have you actually lived it or experienced it? I'll be the first to say that saying it 'sucks' doesn't do it justice, and I'm sure those of you who have been in a long-distance relationship think the same thing. It is so much more than not getting to see your partner. That alone is so hard. It is missing out on all the experiences together. It's physically not being there when your significant other is upset. It's not being there for their successes or accomplishments. Yeah, you will be able to hear about it or see about it via FaceTime or phone, but that is so not the same. I feel for you if you're in a long-distance relationship. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 9 months, and I have actually seen her or been there with her for 35 days. It is the worst feeling in the world knowing that you can't just show up to their house. You can't be the one they cry on when their sad. It kills me. I love my girlfriend more than anything in this whole world, and I know for a fact that our foundation is built strong enough to withstand any adversity. That is what gets me through each day. Having someone who you know feels the exact same about you is so nice. For me, 3 things have been key to a healthy long-distance relationship.

In reality, if you and your partner truly love one another, you can get through anything. It's all about communication, just like with anything in life. Even though being in a long-distance relationship is challenging, don't lose hope. It will all be worth it in the end. Seeing your partner after being away from each other for a long time is so satisfying. Those moments when you are together are some of the best times filled with the best memories. I was so scared getting into a long-distance relationship, but honestly, I found the one for me. I couldn't be happier. Don't let distance stop you!