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My Best Friend Doesn't Have To Be A Girl

We also don't have to date.

Espy Vidot
Nov 21, 2016
Keystone College
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My Best Friend Doesn't Have To Be A Girl
Esperanza Vidot

My very best friend in the world is a guy, and I am a woman. And this is totally okay.

People always think that we are more than friends. And we are, we are best friends. But nothing more. And in a world where we all choose who we want to be and break through glass ceilings and challenge politically correct social norms, I should be able to hang out with my guy best friend without everyone insisting on us being more than what we actually are. It's a common mistake. People see us together all the time and taking photos and going out and they assume he's my boyfriend. Our biggest challenges have been when we are each in relationships - our significant others always say they're okay with our friendship at first and then develop issues with it later on. It's a common issue that seems to trend and at times has even effected our friendship.

I didn't set out for any specific friend to be my best. I literally can't help who my best friend is, and I don't want to. I wouldn't change a thing. He does what any good friend should do: he's there when I need him the most and even when I don't, he makes sure I am safe, and he takes care of my soul the way any of your best friends do. He just happens to be a guy. We can talk about anything and everything, we have each other's backs 100%, and always respect and support each other's decisions. The only thing that's hard for people to understand about our friendship is that we are not the same sex, apparently.

Our friendship is difficult for people to understand, and that's okay. People don't need to understand our relationship, they just need to respect it.

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