For those of you who know me, you know that I have always been, and will always be the "mom friend." Throughout high school, a nickname that has stuck with me is "Mama Shay." While some may find this title of a motherly friend weird, it is comforting to me.

I find pride in the fact that all of my friends know that they can come to me for anything. Whether it is advice on personal issues, or just knowing that wherever we go I will always have a snack at hand, they know that I am here for them. You're friends always know that you will have their back in every situation, and that is important. You will hear all kinds of rants, yet they will always be glad that you were there to

There is an unspoken count of responsibility that comes with being a mom friend. Yet, I wouldn't trade it for anything. Being known as the "mom friend," is a reassurance to me that I was put on this earth to be a mother. Last Mother's day, I received multiple texts from friends wishing me a Happy Mother's Day. As funny as it was, I felt so loved.

The nickname has stuck with me in my transition to college. I still get texts from my little high school babes, as well as new friends calling me "Mama Shay." I wouldn't trade this nickname for the world.

For those reading this that are in the same situation as I am, embrace it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being the mom friend. Don't be embarrassed for being a reliable figure in someone's life. They value your presence in their life, and will likely eventually tell you about the impact that you've made on them. Never be ashamed of being a positive influence in a friend's life.