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Maybe She Is Just Busy...

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Maybe She Is Just Busy...

Maybe she is blowing you off. Maybe she is a bad friend. Maybe she is keeping you in her back pocket for a rainy day. Maybe she is a fake. Maybe she is petty. Maybe she is a bad fit for you.

It's all entirely possible.

Maybe she is just busy. Maybe her plate is completely full and she is trying her best. Maybe she is coping the best she can with the ways she knows how. Maybe she is just stressed. Maybe she is maxed out. Maybe things just isn't going her her, and she is saving her energy.

Maybe she really does miss your text messages.

Maybe she is just overwhelmed with everything going on in her life and in the world. Maybe she is trying her best, but her best just isn't enough, and it really isn't her best right now. Maybe her anxiety is in the way and getting all up in her head.

Maybe it honestly has nothing to do with you at all. Maybe it really is just all about her.

There are a million reasons that she might be failing short. Maybe it really is that things have to run it's course in what we call life. It's a sad part of life, but it is, nonetheless, a part of her life. Only she can make that call.

But, then again, maybe it is something else going on. Don't forget to give her the benefit of the doubt. Don't forget to cut her some slack on things. Don't forget to forgive her. Most importantly don't forget sometimes friendships mean loving each other through the tough seasons, and the rainy weather, and all the ups and downs in life.

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