Going off to college gives people from all over the world a once in a lifetime chance of studying in a new place and meeting new people. However, college is also the time where leaving home tests the strength of previously established friendships. Distance does not need to be the end of friendships or relationships. With winter break in full swing, friends and significant others return to their homes in their respective states. Keeping in contact with friends can be challenging at the beginning, but it is no match for these three tips on how to maintain a long distance friendship.
1. Technology Should Be Utilized As Often As Possible
It may seem like a no brainer, but technology plays a big part in keeping long lasting friendships, no matter the space between people. Talking on Skype, even for an hour once a week, helps preserve and strengthen the bond between friends. Studies have shown that friends who consistently communicate using technology are more likely to successfully maintain their friendships. Texting is another obvious form of interaction amongst friends. Sending a text--whether it be about your day or something funny you saw while walking to class--takes seconds to execute and is a nice way of showing your friends that you are thinking about them. If texting seems to impersonal, a good old phone call will get the job done just as efficiently.
While texting remains a popular form of communication and favored among the younger population, the majority of Americans still enjoy being able to talk on the phone rather than reading a brief text message on their cell phone. Hearing the voice of the person you're talking to--as opposed to glancing at a screen--is a more personal way of reaching out to someone you miss.
2. Write A Letter!
Letters may be a bit slower than texting or giving your friend a phone call, but the unpredictable nature makes receiving a letter all the more exciting. The handwritten aspect of a letter also creates a personal touch, which isn't evident when receiving a text message. You may be distracted while sending a text, but writing a letter requires an individiual's undivided attention. If you are looking for a more personal way to show someone far away that you care, sending a letter is an effective and heartfelt way of doing so.
Handwritten letters take an extended period of time to compose and scot money with each stamp purchased and envelope acquired. But, it shows that the sender has taken that time to think about the person the letter is being given to. The notes that you are sending have the ability to be saved and re-read forever. Text messages and phone calls lacking permanence? Consider writing a letter!
3. Plan An Occasional Visit.
While this last method is the most costly of the three, it is significantly more special than sending a letter or formulating a brief text. Having only a short period of time to see someone in person makes it easy to cherish the moment. With only days to see the person you've been missing, you want to get as much done as possible in that small window of time. Reunions among friends are the chance to show each other what would typically go on while the two are apart. You want to show them the best places to eat in town, and where you hang out. Most of the fun is being able to share the important parts of your life with your best friend.
So, go ahead, give your friend a call, maybe even plan a short visit. Let them know you've been thinking about them during your time apart.
