When it comes to falling in love, it can be complicated; toss in a few trust issues, and it can be impossible. So, to the brave ones who have fallen or are falling in love with a girl who has trust issues, here's a few things you should know.
It really isn't you.
You have probably never given her a reason to not trust you completely, but she still has her guard up right? It's not you. I can't stress that enough.
It might take awhile, but she will eventually let you in.
The walls will become shorter and her heart will become more open, it might just take longer than you had hoped. Don't give up on her, though, she is constantly trying to let you in, but something in her past is reminding her that not all people have her best interest in mind. Give it time.
She's trying.
It's going to be frustrating and you might want to shake her until she admits to trusting in you fully, but just know that she is trying, she really is.
Love her through it.
The absolute best thing that you can do is to love her unconditionally. She probably loves you too much for her own good, and that will only continue to grow. When she pushes you away, hold her closer and remind her that you love her, trust issues and all.
If she has stuck with you this long, there's a reason.
If she had any doubt in her mind that you were no good for her, you wouldn't be with her anymore. She knows the trust will happen, and she is just waiting for the right time to let the past go.
With that being said, don't give up on her. It will happen and you will know when it does. There is a big reason why her reservations exist and they won't go away over night. Love her through it, and she will love you so much more.
