10 Ways To Love Yourself This Valentine's Day

10 Ways To Love Yourself This Valentine's Day

It is 2018. Be your own valentine.

There are so many things I really don't like about Valentine's day. Maybe it's the subpar memories or the hype around celebrating not being single. Personally, I think Valentine's Day is just another sham holiday that started out religious and now is a capitalist pit (just like Christmas). There is some good things about Valentines Day, like the present reminder to celebrate love. Love comes in all forms; romantic, friendships, and within yourself. This Valentines day, try some of these ways to love yourself

1. Take a Bath

Candles and all! Set on some calming music and find a good read, such as a magazine or book.

2. Get your nails done

Pamper yourself. Get a design if you want!

3. Go pet puppies!

There is literally no pure love than a dogs love to be pet.

4. Cook Dinner/Go to your favorite place

Comfort food is the best option!

5. Watch a drama movie

Rom-Coms are overrated on V Day so go for something with a little more depth. I recommend Good Will Hunting.

6. Don't get on social media

Social Media is a hate factory. This is a day for love, so beat it! Also, DO NOT stalk your ex. I cannot press this enough. It will not help you, and it is the worst form of hate, either with them or yourself.

7. Hang out with friends

Your Bffls will always hold a place in your heart.

8. Eat Ice Cream

Ice Cream makes everything better.

9. Get flowers for yourself!

I recommend peonies or orchids.

10. Buy yourself something nice

Because you should always buy loved ones gifts, even yourself!

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To My Person Who Never Left

Some weren't meant to stay, but you weren't meant to leave.

I have met so many people throughout my life who were temporary. We had become close and made amazing memories in the past, but they were meant to stay there, in the past. I understand that not everyone is meant to stay with us forever, and it is totally normal for people to go their separate ways. Some of us grow apart, and that's okay. Sometimes, people are meant to leave.

But you never left.

When I first met you, I had no idea how much you would actually do for me. I thought of you as just another person in my life who was passing through, and eventually, we would drift apart. I am so incredibly lucky that I was wrong.

You have been there for me for so many important events in my life. You've celebrated with me through the good, stood by me through the bad, and supported me through the times I struggled. You have seen me at my best times and my worst. I love that I am able to call you at any hour, and I always know that your voice will be on the other end of the phone. You have always been my biggest cheerleader and I love you for that.

I also love that I am able to tell you anything and everything. I could text you whatever is on my mind, and you will respond--no matter how outrageous it is. You accept my weird habits and my strange thoughts. Most importantly, you accept me. You are able to handle my ridiculous personality, and I think that deserves an award.

The best part about our relationship is that distance doesn't change us. While I prefer not to, we are able to spend time away from each other and pick up right where we left off. It is so easy to lose connection with someone when there are miles between us, but that never happened to us. This just goes to show how close that we are, and how strong our friendship has grown.

It's hard to say how much you have changed me, because it is impossible to see where I would be without you in my life. But I can honestly say my life wouldn't be the same without you. I wouldn't have as many happy memories that I can look back on when I'm sad. I wouldn't have as many jokes I can think about when I'm having a bad day. I wouldn't have your encouraging words running through my head when I get overwhelmed.

And I wouldn't have a relationship that I valued so much.

I know that wherever my life takes me, or wherever your life takes you, we will never actually cut each other off. We have been through so much together, and I'm confident that nothing could break us at this point.

I am so beyond thankful that you, of all people, have stayed. I never knew how much you would mean to me, but I couldn't imagine my life without you.

Thank you for being not just my person, but my person who never left.

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To The Younger Brother Growing Up Too, Too Fast

You may be taller than me now, but I'll always be your bigger sister.


Dear Austin,

I wish we could go back to the days of running around in our pj's watching Disney Channel and eating Lucky Charms until our stomachs hurt. I miss the times we use to spend playing basketball and Xbox only to watch you win at both games. Though you've always been more athletic than me, I've always been your biggest supporter and will continue to cheer you on. You're no longer the little boy obsessed with Lightning McQueen and Rey Mysterio, but now a grown man looking to achieve his dreams. I'm so unbelievably proud of you, and I can't wait to see what the future has in store.

Coming home from college fills my heart with joy. As soon as I walk through the front door, I know I can be greeted with a big bear hug and smile on your face. Our ability to pick up right where we left off is a gift I hope we never lose. Taking a break from school to watch you play soccer, even for a short time, is something I look forward to. Though you're usually busy hanging out with friends or working outside, I'll be forever grateful for the time you take to spend time with me.

Watching you grow over the years hasn't been easy.

We've been through a lot together, some circumstances harder than we could've ever imagined. But through those trials and tribulations, I've seen you grow into a handsome, strong, bold young man ready to tackle any task you're given. You inspire me to work harder and be more confident in myself.

Your growth never ceases to amaze me and in so many ways has made me proud to be your older sister.

I can't help but think about the countless memories we have together riding four-wheelers, eavesdropping on our parents, and nerf-gun fighting in the backyard. You and Amanda were always right beside me in my best childhood memories, and I can't imagine my life any differently without you two. Over the past 18 years, I've learned so much from your crazy ideas and stupid mistakes.

All of these special memories, however, have shaped us into who we are today.

As you go on to finish your last year in high school, I hope this advice will guide you to make good decisions and life choices. Always remember to be yourself and never take anything for granted. Know that you can always call me, in good times or in bad, to share your stories and troubles. Treat girls right and compliment them too. Keep up with your grades, but make time for memories with your friends. Grow strong and independent, leaning on your gut and intuition.

I wish you the best of luck as you finish this last year, but know that the best is yet to come. You will miss home, so savor every moment you have left now. Ten years down the road when we are out of college and in our own careers, I hope we can relive the moments of our childhood memories and tell our own kids how much fun we had.

I'll love you forever (not so little) bro.

Yours truly,


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