To the girl who loves him next:
Let me start off by telling you that you are the luckiest girl, you’re also in the best hands.
He is quite possibly the best person you can fall in love with. He is going to teach you things about being a friend, and being a girlfriend.
His sister is going to want to be your best friend
Let her, she is the sweetest, most kind-hearted loveliest person I’ve ever met. She’s gonna love you like a sister.
His parents are going to love you
It may seem like they like you more than he does sometimes.
He loves to talk about the future
His son will be named after him, and his daughter's name will resemble his sisters' name. Don’t let it scare you, embrace it that he’s opening up to you about something that you might just be lucky enough to be a part of.
Hold his hand
Always. This is a must, and who doesn’t love holding hands.
He gives the best hugs
And he can always use one, take him up on it. Hug him from the back, hug his side, koala hug him, just always hug him. One day you’ll miss all the chances you passed up.
He loves to cuddle
He'll value nothing more than holding you in his arms. But sometimes let him be the little spoon because he likes that too.
He loves to talk on the phone
He'll call you and he’ll want to talk for as long as he can, he loves hearing all about your day, but don’t get so caught up that you forget to ask him about his day too.
Going out
He’ll get so excited about taking you out and showing you off, enjoy it as much as he does.
Tickle Fights
Just know what you’re getting yourself into, but I promise his precious laugh is worth it.
Rub his back
Before you guys go to bed, rub his head and his back I promise, he loves it.
Write him letters
For no reason, write him a letter. Everyone loves a simple reminder of just how much someone cares.
His favorite movie
The Incredibles. Watch it with him, and giggle when he recites the entire movie.
He loves to listen to music
He’s going to tell you to listen to songs sometimes, simply because he hears them and he thinks of you. You’re gonna fall in love with all those songs, I promise.
He loves chai tea
Iced, frozen, warm, it doesn’t matter, he loves it all. In the winter he’ll crave a white mocha chocolate, surprise him once in a while.
Send him pictures of things that remind you of him
Simple, you see a funny tweet or a cute instagram picture, send it to him. He’ll be thankful that you’re thinking of him.
Make a bucket list
you'll always have something to look forward too.
In his book, you come first.
You’re his priority, and the guys will come in second, don't take too much advantage of that, let him have some guy time.
When you guys sleep together
If you ever need anything in the middle of the night- wake him, he'll be upset in the morning if you tell him you had a bad dream or you couldn't sleep, but you didn't wake him.
When you cry
You’re very welcome because thanks to me, he is a professional tear wiper, and he’ll know just how to fix you when you’re down. Don’t be ashamed to cry in front of him, he’ll still love you.
When he cries
Hug him. Unfortunately, sometimes things will get to be too much for him, and he’ll cry just like you will. Wipe his tears and hug him.
He'll ask you if you're happy
Tell him the truth, if something is bothering you tell him. Make sure you ask him if he's happy too.
He dwells on the past more often than not
It’s inevitable, he is going to bring up his past, all the way back to middle school. Don’t think that it is anything to worry about, it's not. He has a hard time forgiving himself, and its now your job to remind him everything is okay and he is perfect.
Encourage him
He's trying, he's trying with school and he's trying with you, stand by his side and I promise he won’t leave yours.
Always remind him to look on the bright side
he tends to be on the pessimistic side sometimes. Remind him of all the great things he’s got going for him
He doesn't get mad easily
But everyone gets mad sometimes. So when he does just give him his space, he'll come around.
He gets jealous easily
he won't admit it, but just don't give him a reason to get jealous and you won’t have any issues.
Try not to get jealous
I know easier said than done. But you guys are together now, he has learned from his mistakes and he is not going to risk losing you. When you get jealous he will get upset that you don't trust him.
Never break a promise
He will never break one, neither should you.
If he has a bad day
Just remind him how proud of him you are, he’ll feel better.
He loves getting long messages after a rough day
Remind him just how much you love and care about him. Show him your listening, mention the things that make him happy, remind him of all the good thing going on.
Don't mom him
He'll get annoyed, but still let him know you care. He is a big boy, he can take care of himself on his own.
Give him his space
After a bad day, he’s going to want some space. Let him have it. He’s going to want to relax and watch netflix and just not think about anything. Let him know you’re there for him if he wants to talk about it, but most days he wont want too.
He doesn’t like to talk about himself
He'll get annoyed if you push him to talk about something, he’ll get really annoyed, but you need to get it out of him. It’s on his mind and it’s bothering him. Things will feel better for both of you once you get it out of him.
But most importantly, be his best friend and his girlfriend. Love him with every bit of your heart, he’s going to do the same for you.
He's going to treat you like a princess. Do not take advantage of it. Put him on a pedestal just as he deserves.
Sincerely,
The girl who still wants to see him happy.
