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Love Is A Four Letter Verb

When you meet Love face to face, you stop looking for love in all the wrong places.

Ali Sizemore

Jun 13, 2016

Blue Mountain College

Ali Sizemore

The concept of love has become twisted by society. Love is selfish and greedy. Love is vain and insecure. Love is dramatic and petty. Love means meeting someone’s needs while they neglect yours. Love is strictly physical and brings temporary happiness. Love only lasts for a time-- a short time.

But what if none of this is true, and everything we've learned about love is a disastrous fairy tale?

The Word of God is a message of hope, unlike the desperate story society tells. There’s got to be something that changes the idea of love from a message of fruitlessness to hope.

Look into the eyes of the Savior.

“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way, it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-8

Learning to truly love and be loved can be the hardest journey one ever takes, yet the most rewarding. Sometimes people make the discouraging mistake of thinking love is something that can be achieved or earned. They’re fighting a losing battle. The one way to love and be loved is to meet Love Himself.

“And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.” 1 John 4:16

To know love, let God show you just how much He loves you. To know how to love, love God, and the rest will fall into place. His love is so pure, so sweet, so enduring and so contagious.

Love is a gift from our Heavenly Father. I finally got a glimpse of what real love is when I looked to Love Himself. From there, I saw how that love spills over into every area of my life. I could never truly love without knowing who love is. Knowing Love means seeing the ones you love as God does. You see their heart and their true being, rather than who you've made them out to be. Best of all, you see their love for the Lord. If you're both loving through the Lord, that love lasts for a lifetime.

Stop letting the world tell you what love is. Stop letting the world tell you what you need in love. Stop letting the world tell you who needs to love you and how they need to love you. Seek the Lord. Read His Word. Understand how much He loves you. Then don’t be surprised when your idea of love is completely redefined.

When you meet Love face to face, you stop looking for love in all the wrong places. Actively seek the Lord and let Him redefine love in your life. Don’t sit around and wait for love. Read the Word of God, seek Him with everything in you and let Him show you who Love is.

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The Best Lines from the Fab Four

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

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10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

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Attend the first class

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