Looking Out From The Inside

We tend to only let people see what we want them to see...Nobody knows the real story except you.

May 24, 2016

Debbie via Rescue4RTeam

Do you know what it feels like to sit there and watch someone you love to be in excruciating pain and you literally can't do anything? You just have to sit there and let that person suffer and push through it. You can’t help but just to sit there and make that person think that you don't care, even though you are terrified for him or her simply because of the fact you have no idea how to properly respond to the situation. This person sits there and talks about how he or she just wants to die and you can’t do a thing. You are scared to even attempt to help because you don't want to make things worse. This is the absolute worst feeling in the world. It’s as if your loved one is a great diamond and you aren't anything but some scum on the ground and both of you are completely helpless.

I have been through so much that your average college kid probably shouldn’t have to face, and that includes being in love with someone who lives a constant life of pain and despair all while trying to escape this deep hole this person is in. It is already hard enough for this person to have a "normal life," but I’m here to tell you that this is something that is hard for me as well. Now it may sound a bit selfish of me, but I just want others to know that it is not always rainbows and butterflies.

I can literally feel my heart breaking and only hope to become so successful that one day I can take everything that is harmful away from this person. Unfortunately, I’m afraid that this is something that only God can handle and take from this person. I can only keep my prayers strong and my faith stronger. It’s not that easy, though, because it is a constant battle between me and the world, it seems like. My entire world can turn upside down in a blink of an eye once the pain starts. I believe that it hurts me more than it hurts this person, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. My calling is to help others and you may as well beat the snot out of me if I cannot help the person I love.

Sometimes, I wish that I could have the love you see in chick flicks and those Disney movies. I wish that I could have a perfect life and wish that my issues would dissolve forever. I mean, I guess that I could move on with my life and go on to the next fish in the sea. It isn’t worth it, though. If I can’t have this particular person, I don’t want anyone.

“Never give up on something you really want. We all know that it is tough to wait, but it is even tougher to regret what you gave up.” -- Unknown

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Looking Out From The Inside

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It's not as easy as it sounds.

PRO: More time for self care.

CON: More time to overthink.

PRO: More time to spend with family and friends.

CON: More time to get into trouble.

You can be yourself without having to explain yourself, because she accepts you and loves you just the way you are.

The temperature may not be very Autumn-like, but these playlists sure are.

1. Southern Gothic

2. Autumn Acoustics

3. Autumn Leaves

4. Deep Dark Indie

5. Dreamy Fall

6. Halloween Hipster

7. Wanderlust

8. Your Favorite Coffeehouse

... Because life happens

1. Realizing there's no more toilet paper when it's already too late.

2. Making a cup of coffee in the morning and forgetting it in the car.

3. Pushing doors that say pull.

4. When you hear people chew.

5. When it's really quiet in a room and you hear that one person breathing like they just ran a marathon.

6. Grabbing a chocolate chip cookie, only to realize it's actually oatmeal raisin.

7. Getting comfortable in bed and then realizing you forgot to pee/turn off the light.

8. That one aunt/uncle that just always gives you that creepy vibe.

9. When your teacher makes you buy a textbook that you never even crack open.

10. Continuing to open and reopen the fridge until the food that you want magically makes its way in there.

11. Walking into a room and then automatically forgetting why you went in there.

12. People that drive without using their blinker.

13. When you have really slow wi-fi.

14. People who feel the need to scream into their phones as if the other person can't hear them.

15. The world's obsession with the Kardashian/Jenner families.

16. Advertisements before Youtube videos.

17. When people read over your shoulder.

18. A-holes that park in the handicapped spots when they, in fact, not handicapped.

19. People who cut in line.

20. The LIRR/MTA

21. Being stuck behind someone who is walking painfully slow.

22. When people smoke cigarettes right in front of the entrance to the building you have to walk into.

23. When boys think it's cool to treat girls like crap.

24. Guys that still go to high school parties even though they've been out of high school for years.

25. Celebrities that are obviously lip-syncing.

26. How you need a scissor to get the scissor out of its package.

27. When people text using that stupid "voice text" function.

28. Telling someone you can't hear them, so they use the same exact volume and just repeat what they said.

29. When someone gets in the shower right as you were about to get in the shower.

30. Saying "What?" for some reason, even though you heard what the person said.

31. When you're in a rush but the light is red.

32. Cashiers putting your change down on the counter instead of in your hand.

33. The people that go up to order food to the cashier but are still continuing their phone conversation.

34. That awkward time in the fall when it's freezing in the morning but stifling in the afternoon.

35. Emailing your professor a long winded paragraph about a problem you are having and they email back, "Sure."

36. Guys who put their car as their profile picture on Facebook.

37. Girls who have "X Years Young." in their Instagram bios.

38. Trying to find the beginning to a roll of tape.

39. When people drive your car and adjust your mirrors/seat.

40. People that talk during the movie.

41. People that decide to engage in conversation right in the middle of the hallway/sidewalk.

42. When someone says, "no offense," and then continues to say something offensive.

43. People that pop their significant others pimples.

44. Teacher's pets.

45. Going to the bathroom and someone goes into the stall right next to you.

46. When someone leaves your room and doesn't shut the door.

47. Political debates between two people who know nothing about politics.

48. When you get all ready to go out and your friend cancels plans.

49. People that drop their friends for their significant other.

50. People that don't like animals.

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