It’s the first few months of college, and you’re quickly realizing that there are a lot of cute people on campus. Way more than you were exposed to in high school. The only problem? You’re tied down to someone back home.

This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. It can be hard to let your significant other go before moving away, especially if you’re both still in love. Sometimes, it’s better to stay together. You never know how long the relationship might have lasted if you end it before it’s finished. This person could be your soulmate, and you’re leaving them for a hookup or two per week.

Adjusting to being away from home for what could be the first time and meeting a slew of new people may leave you overwhelmed, and you just need someone from back home to bring you comfort. Calling your boyfriend or girlfriend can make you feel safe and secure, even when you’re far away from home. Never underestimate the power of the familiar voice of your favorite person.

If you’re looking for something to look forward to, a visit from a significant other is always a good option. The first time you see the person you love after weeks (or even months) of constant messages and facetime calls, it feels like a dream. You cherish every second you’re in his or her arms, and even looking at them brings a dumb smile to your face. There is no better feeling than seeing the person you miss the most in real life.

Also, who is better to talk to about roommate troubles and friend conflict than someone who doesn’t live on campus? They’re separated from everything that happens, and can give you an unbiased opinion on the issue or just listen contently. It’s like a diary that can respond to you and call you out when you’re in the wrong.

In the end, if you do end up breaking up with your long distance significant other, at least they’re far away. You won’t have to see them at class or around your friends, which will making getting over them and finding someone new or being single much easier.

Long distance can seem scary, but it’s not as bad as people make it out to be. As long as you communicate with each other and truly want the relationship to work, then it should last, even while you’re at different schools. As they say, love trumps all, including a little distance.