4 Reasons Why Long Distance Relationships Can Be A Good Thing
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4 Reasons Why Long Distance Relationships Can Be A Good Thing

People always say, "It'll never work" but I say, "watch me."

Megan Hering
Dec 31, 2019
Oklahoma State
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4 Reasons Why Long Distance Relationships Can Be A Good Thing
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When in a conversation with someone, the fact you are in a long distance relationship may come up. Most commonly, the reaction from your peers is a remark of surprise or disdain. They might even criticize you for your choices. Everyone tends to look to the downside of the situation while you look on the bright side.

Here are 4 reasons why long distance relationships can work!

1. The difference of love and lust are very apparent.

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When you are the one half of a long distance relationship, you can quickly distinguish the difference between love and lust. Your relationship is built on a foundation of emotional bonds rather than physical bonds. You talk more through words rather than actions. Rather than relying on a physical bond you share, you rely on bonding through your conversations.

2. Trust is your absolute foundation

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Every relationship must be built on trust but with long distance relationships-- it is imperative. When you are apart from your significant other, you must trust them wholeheartedly. If something is telling you that your s/o may not be truthful, then a long distance arrangement is not for you. You both have a life together and a life apart. If it was meant to be, your lives apart will become much less and your life together will begin.

3. The time you spend together is so special.

I'll Wait For You

The moments you get to spend with your significant other are unlike any other. It's as if you have become a whole person again. There is so much love, laughing, and smiling in those minutes. A missing piece to your puzzle was put where it belongs, the hand that keeps you safe and warm is once again holding you again. The love of your life is right in front of your eyes.

4. If things go smoothly, they just might be, "The One"

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There may be a point where you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. You have a strong foundation, special moments, and a lifetime of hugs, kisses, smiles, and memories. Nothing amazing in life happens without dedication and love. Being in a long distance relationship isn't for the broken hearted. For those of us who were meant to be, being apart is only temporary. After your separation, your life together will truly begin.

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