Nothing will always work out the way you had intended, which can be very dissatisfying at first. Life is full of unfortunate events that initially seem detrimental and ultimately impossible to overcome, but let me tell you how untrue that really is.
At first you will feel defeated when everything seems to be falling apart. You will think the odds will always be stacked against you, which can be a dangerous mindset to become stuck in. However, it is extremely important to handle every situation as a learning experience and share that gained knowledge with others.
Lesson 1: Attitude is key.
“Life is 10 percent what happens to you and 90 percent how you react to it.” Charles R. Swindoll
Lesson 2: Learn from your mistakes.
“Remember that life’s greatest lessons are usually learned at the worst times and from the worst mistakes.” - Unknown
Lesson 3: Don’t worry about the past.
“Don't dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do next. Spend your energies on moving forward toward finding the answer.” - Denis Waitley
Lesson 4: Don’t put your happiness in anybody else’s hands.
“Stop planting flowers in people’s yards who aren’t going to water them.” - Unknown
Lesson 5: Always stay humble and kind.
“The hand that gives is superior to the hands that receive. Be grateful for all you have as others pray for what you already have.” - Malika E Nura
Lesson 6: Appreciate the people in your life while they are still there.
“Learn to appreciate everything. It could be minute and mean nothing to you, but it could be the best efforts of another.” - Hermann J Steinherr
Lesson 7: Don’t change for anyone.
“There’s nothing worse than letting people control your life. This is your life. Live it your way.” - Unknown
Through everything life throws at you, remain true to yourself. Enjoy each day to the fullest because you never know how long you truly have to live. Treat every day like a new learning experience because the most important lesson for you might be one you haven’t even learned yet.