Hey,
I know you’re scared, or worried, or just downright terrified. But I’m here to tell you that you can do it, you’re not alone, and everyone is here to help you.
Whether you’re a freshman who’s still scared of college and homesick, or a senior who’s worried about your future, or somewhere in between, you are not alone.
As a freshman, I was in your shoes. I was scared of college, even though I never showed it, I was scared. I was about to move away to a new place, 2 ½ hours away from home, live with people I’ve never met before, and start off my college career. I was so scared, because in high school, things were easier, and you always had your security blanket of home and friends. And then you’re thrown into a brand new place, with brand new people, and a new dynamic and style of life. I was homesick for the first week, I cried after my parents left (something I thought I would never do), and when they came up for family weekend with my little brother, my smile returned for that short time. But when they left, I was upset and cried as they drove away. I didn’t like being alone without my family and being responsible for my college career. But do you wanna know something? I survived, and I’m still here. I got through the first year with the support of my family, friends and professors. So I want you to know, that you are NOT alone, and it’s OKAY to be scared. It’s okay to cry and be upset, but just know that you have people out there, just like you who are always willing to help. Whether it be your roommate, best friend, friends, professor, boss, RA, or family, they are always there for you. I want to leave you guys with one more thing: Reach out to others if you are struggling, share your struggles, and overcome them. Don’t face this battle alone, face it with someone who cares about you and wants what is best for you.
As for the college senior, well I’m not quite in your shoes yet, but I can only imagine what’s going through your mind. You’ve made this place your home for the past few years, and now you have to be thrown out into the real world and fend for yourself in just a few short months. You’re scared, and that is perfectly fine. No one expects you to know exactly where your headed, and if they do, then they’re nuts. The world is your playground, so go find your niche, and go kill it. If that means taking a year off and figuring things out, or staying at home with your parents working multiple jobs while searching for the right one, then so be it. You work at your own pace, and you do what feels right for you. One last thing: Good luck, you’ll do great out in the real world. :)
