Hey you,
Yeah you the sorority girl who didn't get a little this year.
It is okay, I didn't either.
I know what you are feeling and it sucks. You didn't get to find your soulmate, other half, and kindred spirit during recruitment. You didn't have that one girl that you wanted more than anything in the world to join your sorority.
But here is the thing.
It is not your time yet, and that's fine.
There is always next year and new girls. You will find your one. But for right now, we can do this...together.
It will be hard initially. You will see everyone posting pictures about their new little or how they are a grand big now and whatnot. You will see them going on all types of lunch dates, movie dates, shopping dates and maybe sometimes they will invite you too. At first, you will say yes and join them but then it will get too hard.It will be too hard to watch what could have been yours, and that is okay. You'll start to wonder which new member would have been yours. You rethink all of recruitment to see if maybe you missed someone who would have been your perfect little. And then you'll realize that there is next year.
Next year becomes a light at the end of the tunnel for you. You'll start crafting for your little next year even though you have 364 days until you will get her. You will start saving ideas of cute pictures to take for when you will be able to really do a stack picture.
You have hope.
But right now, you are just a little sad.
The first weeks may be the hardest, but you have to accept it and focus on that light at the end of the tunnel.
Also when you are feeling down remember this: when you think you're at your worse, you remember that you have over 90 something beautiful, loving sisters to support you until it's your turn to get a little. Then you will support her through everything.
Your time will come, to finally have a little, but for now, you have to wait.
and waiting is hard, I know. I am doing it too.
So together we will wait.
Together, with my over 90 sisters, I will prepare.
The time will come, with the perfect girl to be my little, and I will be glad I waited. Glad I waited for the perfect little to walk through that door into our home.
But for now, I am just a little sad.
