Darling,
First things first, I love you. I know sometimes I might not show it, but I love you more always.
Be and love yourself. This world is tough and hard; however, you were born to stick out from the pack. It is always cool to be you, trust me. Don't pick on your flaws, everyone has them. No one is perfect, but you are perfectly you! No one will love you until you can learn to love yourself.
Be nice and work hard. Being nice to people will never go out of style. Neither will working hard. Work ethic is something that was drained in me at a young age and as you will learn too. You can get/become whatever you want in this crazy life just work hard.
Never give up. This world can be a cruel place. People will be discouraging and mean, but never let what someone says/does discourage you from your dream. There will be days where you want to quit but I promise you can do it.
Don't be a negative Nelly. No one wants to be around someone complaining 24/7. Be positive. Life is to short to see the glass half empty all the time. You are going to run into numerous trials and tribulations, but let them help shape you don't let them make you bitter. Things might not always be easy but you can do it and I will be with you every step of the way.
Choosing friends, choose wisely. Good friends might not always be right next to you or with you; however, they will always be there for you. You are not going to be everyone's friend and not everyone will like you - regardless everyone should be treated how you want to be treated. You'll go through ups and downs with friendships, it might suck, but you'll survive. Remember - moms always see a fake friend before you do, always.
Stay in school. I hope you love school as much as I do. From the teachers, to the new school supplies, to constantly learning about new topics and ideas, to meeting and learning about new people. Education is one of the only things that can help you change the world for the better. It is also a key to make you successful.
Save money. Do you really need another pair of shoes? No. Whenever you can put a little in savings. Whether it's a dollar or twenty it all adds up. It might not sound fun - just wait until you go off to college.
Travel often. If your my child you're most likely going to have the travel bug, thank God. Traveling has helped me see the world in a different way. It has helped me see others as if I were standing in their shoes and it also has taught me to not take what I have for granted. Traveling is a gift and wherever you choose to go always remember you are blessed.
Pray. This life will be amazing - even though some days might feel like hell - always pray. Pray about your biggest fears and your biggest blessings. Always thank God for those surrounding and guiding you. Prayer works wonders. When in doubt give it too God.
You are not alone - never forget that. You are so loved. Even though I won't be able to protect you from everything this world has in store for you I will try my best to be there for you every step of the way. I will support you in your endeavors and help you on your weakest days.I love you more first.
Your Mom,
Hannah
