A Letter To My Ex-Best Friend Now Dating My Ex
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A Letter To My Ex-Best Friend Now Dating My Ex

Apparently, best friends share everything.

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A Letter To My Ex-Best Friend Now Dating My Ex
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Let me just start off with thank you for giving me the opportunity to write an article with such deep substance. I would like to say this would have never become possible without me, so you are both very welcome. If I never broke your heart, you would have never needed a rebound. I am kind of a backwards cupid but I guess I don't deserve all the credit, that would just be self-absorbed.

To be honest, I thought I would be kind of upset to hear this. I am not surprised by any means. I am surprised that I didn't care. I thought I would want to scream at someone and feel such anger. I am so unbothered, so that is so great for me. I hear this happening to other people, and I just think, "wow that is soo shi**y". Not that it isn't, but you just think it is going to be something that haunts you and well pisses you off. If this is something I could have expected from my best friend, you were never a best friend.

All sarcasm out of the way, I am truly happy. Breaking you two both out of my life has given me such happiness. As harsh as that sounds, neither of you were good for me. It isn't because you are not good people, we just did not have positive effects on each other. Sometimes people just don't have the chemistry to balance each other out. I am happy for both of you for finding what you want, and that is how I really know I am over both of you.

If you want something, go for it. If you feel something for someone, don't let a situation hold you back. Having something good with someone doesn't come around often, so when you see it don't miss that opportunity. If that means by ex best-friend dating my ex-boyfriend, I am glad to be apart of the equation of helping you find each other. To both of you, I am not upset, mad, etc. It's closure. Neither of you were meant to stay in my life, but I wish you both the best.

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