A Letter To My Past Self, Now That I've Left My Teen Years Behind

A Letter To My Past Self, Now That I've Left My Teen Years Behind

My younger years were full of mistakes, unrealistic expectations, and doubt.

My teen years are in the past, and I am slowly moving into true adulthood. I still have a lot to learn, but there are some things I wish I could tell my past self. My younger years were full of mistakes, unrealistic expectations, and doubt. I wish I could go back and change some things, but I cant. I just have to reflect, learn, and move on.

Dear Younger Me,

Most importantly, you need to relax. You must have faith that everything will work itself out. Don't be afraid to let go every once in a while. Smile, laugh, have fun. Stop worrying. Everything will come together in time. It won't be exactly as you expect or hope, but you will find happiness. You just have to remain strong through the confusion, uncertainty, and pain. Just enjoy the moment and appreciate what you have.

Don't let moments of uncertainty and doubt make you lose sight of your dreams. The scattering of your thoughts may convince you otherwise, but deep down, you know who you are. Knowing who you are is not the same as having a concrete plan. Knowing who you are is a gut feeling. You'll experience many bouts of self-doubt and bad self-esteem, but you'll learn from it. And besides, it is impossible to know for sure what your future holds.

Leave the angsty, rebellious teen act behind. That kind of attitude will only cause you to lose friendships and prevent you from flourishing. You probably realize already that this is happening, but I know it will take you a while to understand that you need to change. That's not who you are, and deep down, you know it. Just open up and be yourself. Be kinder and less harsh. Breathe. Appreciate the simple things. Tear your walls down, and let your hard exterior soften. It's hard, but it's worth it. If you refuse to let people in, you'll just end up alone. Unfortunately, that's a lesson you'll have to learn the hard way, but when you finally do let someone in, you won't regret it.

I know you're simultaneously afraid and eager to reach adulthood, but there is no need to fear or hurry. It's harder than it looks, but it holds many rewards. For now, just be a kid and live your life.


You in the Future

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To The Nursing Major During The Hardest Week Of The Year

I know that no grade can possibly prove what kind of nurse you will be. I know that no assignment will showcase your compassion. I know that no amount of bad days will ever take away the empathy inside of you that makes you an exceptional nurse.


To the Nursing Major During Finals Week,

I know you're tired, I know you're stressed, and I know you feel like you can't go on. I know that no part of this seems fair, and I know you are by far the biggest critic of yourself. I know that you've thought about giving up. I know that you feel alone. I know that you wonder why in the world you chose one of the hardest college majors, especially on the days it leaves you feeling empty and broken.

But, I also know that you love nursing school. I know your eyes light up when you're with patients, and I know your heart races when you think of graduation. I know that you love the people that you're in school with, like truly, we're-all-in-this-together, family type of love. I know that you look at the older nurses with admiration, just hoping and praying that you will remain that calm and composed one day. I know that every time someone asks what your college major is that you beam with pride as you tell them it's nursing, and I know that your heart skips a beat knowing that you are making a difference.

I know that no grade can possibly prove what kind of nurse you will be. I know that no assignment will showcase your compassion. I know that a failed class doesn't mean you aren't meant to do this. I know that a 'C' on a test that you studied so. dang. hard. for does not mean that you are not intelligent. I know that no amount of bad days will ever take away the empathy inside of you that makes you an exceptional nurse.

I know that nursing school isn't fair. I know you wish it was easier. I know that some days you can't remember why it's worth it. I know you want to go out and have fun. I know that staying up until 1:00 A.M. doing paperwork, only to have to be up and at clinicals before the sun rises is not fair. I know that studying this much only to be failing the class is hard. I know you wish your friends and family understood. I know that this is difficult.

Nursing school isn't glamorous, with the white lab coat and stethoscope. Nursing school is crying, randomly and a lot. Nursing school is exhaustion. Nursing school is drinking so much coffee that you lose track. Nursing school is being so stressed that you can't eat. Nursing school is four cumulative finals jam-packed into one week that is enough to make you go insane.

But, nursing school is worth it. I know that when these assignments are turned in and finals are over, that you will find the motivation to keep going. I know that one good day of making a difference in a patient's life is worth a hundred bad days of nursing school.

Keep hanging in there, nursing majors. It'll all be worth it— this I know, for sure.

So, if you have a nursing major in your life, hug them and tell them that you're proud of them. Nursing school is tough, nursing school is scary, and nursing school is overwhelming; but a simple 'thank-you' from someone we love is all we need to keep going.


A third-year nursing student who knows

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To The High School Graduating Seniors

I know you're ready, but be ready.



I am not going to say anything about senioritis because I was ready to get out of there and I'm sure you are too; however, in your last months living at home you should take advantage of the luxuries you will not have in a college dorm. The part of college seen in movies is great, the rest of it is incredibly inconvenient. It is better to come to terms with this While you still have plenty of time to prepare and enjoy yourself.

Perhaps one of the most annoying examples is the shower. Enjoy your hot, barefoot showers now because soon enough you will have no water pressure and a drain clogged with other people's hair. Enjoy touching your feet to the floor in the shower and the bathroom because though it seems weird, it's a small thing taken away from you in college when you have to wear shoes everywhere.

Enjoy your last summer with your friends. After this summer, any free time you take is a sacrifice. For example, if you want to go home for the summer after your freshman year and be with your friends, you have to sacrifice an internship. If you sacrifice an internship, you risk falling behind on your resume, and so on. I'm not saying you can't do that, but it is not an easy choice anymore.

Get organized. If you're like me you probably got good grades in high school by relying on your own mind. You think I can remember what I have to do for tomorrow. In college, it is much more difficult to live by memory. There are classes that only meet once or twice a week and meeting and appointments in between that are impossible to mentally keep straight. If you do not yet have an organizational system that works for you, get one.

I do not mean to sound pessimistic about school. College is great and you will meet a lot of people and make a lot of memories that will stick with you for most of your life. I'm just saying be ready.

-A freshman drowning in work

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