Let’s Stop Letting Technology Rule Our Lives

Let’s Stop Letting Technology Rule Our Lives

Take some time to close those laptops....after you read this of course!

Despite being born into one of the most technologically advanced generations, I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing when it comes to technology.

Whether it’s a computer, cell phone or even an ancient iPod touch, I somehow manage to break everything, wipe out entire systems and accidentally delete five page essays on a regular basis.

Despite my overwhelming cluelessness, I ironically love technology.

Currently, my main forms are an iPhone 6s and a Dell laptop. While I won’t say I’m obsessed with them, I do cherish the homes of my various articles, phone numbers and pictures and def freak out a little bit when I drop them (which happens way more than I’d like to admit!) but, before this past week, I would have probably told you I could live without them if it was absolutely necessary.

Unfortunately, I learned the hard way that technology often sucks more than it shines.

At the beginning of this week, after studying for a philosophy exam until the wee hours of the morning, I wanted nothing more than to climb into bed, set my alarm for the next morning and sleep my sorrows away.

My phone had other plans though because, at the very moment I was about to shut my eyes and drift off into a beautiful state of sleeping bliss, my phone shut off and would simply not turn back on again.

So, I sat there in my sleepy state for an additional hour and 45 minutes waiting for my precious piece of junk phone to get its act together.

The drama doesn’t stop there though.

A few days later, after finishing six assignments, yes, you heard me correctly, SIX assignments, my computer began blinking on and off to no avail, forcing me to stay up until 2 a.m. with several of my tech-savvy friends trying to figure out the issue.

The reason I mention these two major inconveniences is because, when they happened, I nearly had a full-blown breakdown.

The thought of living my life sans these two objects made me want to cry and stomp my feet in protest, not just because I was afraid of losing all the papers and worksheets I’d worked so hard on, but because I honestly could not picture going day in and day out without a cell phone and computer to fall back on.

These days, people rely so heavily on technology it is hard to imagine a time where it wasn’t as prominent.

While what happened to me isn’t an everyday occurrence, I hear horror stories about final projects being lost or computers randomly shutting down during the last question of an important online quiz all because of the unreliability of technology.

We never know when it is going to fail us or screw up our week, but we still love it for some reason.

After my week of numerous technology fails, I realized that these two tiny pieces of metal (and probably some other things I can’t pronounce) were consuming my thoughts and time to the point of ridiculousness.

There are so many more important things in life than texting and snapchatting constantly and people need to start realizing that.

So, after I finish typing this and all my other assignments up, I will close my laptop, put it away and enjoy the moment I am in now because that is all that matters.

Cover Image Credit: https://network.aia.org/blogs/miles-wiseman/2016/04/04/smart-technology-devices-in-college-students-education

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The Truth About Young Marriage

Different doesn't mean wrong.

When I was a kid, I had an exact picture in my mind of what my life was going to look like. I was definitely not the kind of girl who would get married young, before the age of 25, at least.

And let me tell you, I was just as judgmental as that sentence sounds.

I could not wrap my head around people making life-long commitments before they even had an established life. It’s not my fault that I thought this way, because the majority opinion about young marriage in today’s society is not a supportive one. Over the years, it has become the norm to put off marriage until you have an education and an established career. Basically, this means you put off marriage until you learn how to be an adult, instead of using marriage as a foundation to launch into adulthood.

When young couples get married, people will assume that you are having a baby, and they will say that you’re throwing your life away — it’s inevitable.

It’s safe to say that my perspective changed once I signed my marriage certificate at the age of 18. Although marriage is not always easy and getting married at such a young age definitely sets you up for some extra challenges, there is something to be said about entering into marriage and adulthood at the same time.

SEE ALSO: Finding A Husband In College

Getting married young does not mean giving up your dreams. It means having someone dream your dreams with you. When you get lost along the way, and your dreams and goals seem out of reach, it’s having someone there to point you in the right direction and show you the way back. Despite what people are going to tell you, it definitely doesn’t mean that you are going to miss out on all the experiences life has to offer. It simply means that you get to share all of these great adventures with the person you love most in the world.

And trust me, there is nothing better than that. It doesn’t mean that you are already grown up, it means that you have someone to grow with.

You have someone to stick with you through anything from college classes and changing bodies to negative bank account balances.

You have someone to sit on your used furniture with and talk about what you want to do and who you want to be someday.

Then, when someday comes, you get to look back on all of that and realize what a blessing it is to watch someone grow. Even after just one year of marriage, I look back and I am incredibly proud of my husband. I’m proud of the person he has become, and I’m proud of what we have accomplished together. I can’t wait to see what the rest of our lives have in store for us.

“You can drive at 16, go to war at 18, drink at 21, and retire at 65. So who can say what age you have to be to find your one true love?" — One Tree Hill
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Working summers doesn't have to be tedious.


Like many other college students, I was ready for summer but was kinda bummed that I had to work. Its not that I didn't like where I was working, I actually was really lucky to be working in a hospital environment but I just hated being alone all summer from 9-5. I've had this job for a few years now and a few other paid interns came and went but I never really connected with any of them. This year is different though.

I got really lucky to have another intern work with me that was very similar to me. The tasks we got were always simple but they were made to be more fun because I got to do them while talking with someone else. Now I actually enjoy and look forward to going to work.

The key to finding a good job is finding one that you enjoy doing and one that will help you gain knowledge that will help you out with future career plans. Working with friends also make tasks enjoyable! I would be careful with working with your friend however because if your job needs you to be serious and focused, being around your best friends may distract you from that.

Another thing that definitely makes summer jobs more enjoyable are taking breaks! It is your summer vacation after all! I'm not saying don't take a day off just to sit around, but if you make plans with family and friends, take a Friday off and enjoy the warm weather and good company! Employers understand that us college students and on break and have lives, they are usually very lenient with days off!

If you have to do a summer job to make money to live off of or pay for college, the best thing to do is look at the big picture. If you don't enjoy your job but can't afford to quit, remember that the money if going to help you out a lot. Also, this job is probably only for the summer right? So it's not permanent my friend! Get through these annoying few weeks and you will be back at college, taking steps for a bigger and brighter future.

Summer jobs are tough, I know, but make the most of it! And don't forget to enjoy it whenever you can!!!


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