It Is Always Girl Break Ups That Hurt The Most

Let Me Tell You About My Worst Breakup

Nothing Compares To A Girl Friend Breakup.


A girl friend knows you on a different level. She has not just been there when you have cried, she has lived through the same situation. She is not just your person you text when something good happens, she is right there by your side. I have been through my fair share of boyfriend breakups, but they are nothing compared to girl friend break ups.

Here is the background story to how this article came into existence. To keep anonymity, let's called her "Claire." I played club soccer with Claire in seventh grade and we quickly became best friends. Then she moved into my neighborhood and we rode the middle school bus together every morning and afternoon. We had soccer practices at night three times a week and our parents would carpool us to and from practice together. There is already a strong bond between teammates, but we were also classmates and neighbors so we had an unbreakable bond. Or so I thought. We entered high school, but not together. She moved into a different school district, but we still played soccer together. Claire and I did not spend as much time together, but we still were best friends. During our sophomore year of high school our friendship ended over a boy.

We went two years without talking until one day Claire texted me out of the blue and we met up for lunch. After laughing about our boy miscommunication and catching up on everything from the past years, we became best friends again. Not the same relationship as before, but best friends nevertheless. Our friendship seemed to have a new feeling to it and I could not believe that we had gone years without speaking to each other. We stayed in our honeymoon stage for a couple months after her text.

Then one night everything fell apart and our breakup history came back. I felt the same way as I did the first time things went south. Miscommunication seemed to be our biggest downfall and we went out with a bang for good this time. I do not think Claire and I were meant to be best friends for life, but she was my go-to gal during our early teenage years. Even though there was a lot of hurt and anger that caused the break up, I would do anything for that girl. If she needed anything, I would be there. It has been three years since we stopped talking entirely and let me tell you, Claire has been my worst breakup.

Popular Right Now

21 Reasons You Should Date Someone Who Was A Camp Counselor

Spouse and parent material, all wrapped up in an animal shirt, Nike shorts, and Chacos.

1. They shop at Goodwill mostly... low maintenance you could say?

SEE ALSO: The ABC's Of Summer Camp

2. They are pretty awesome at talking to parents... opening days have given good practice for them. Give them 15 minutes and they will become best friends with your parents.

3. Their best friends actually are long you can wait a while to meet their besties who will want to know everything about you and make sure your intentions are good.

4. They have learned how to look decently presentable without showering for a week... maybe may or may not like this one.

5. They are always down for adventure... sure let's hike for eight miles uphill in the middle of the week!

6. They know what it is like to be woken up at 2 a.m. because someone wet their bed... mom training.

7. They also know how to give the "modest is hottest" talk to the teenage campers... and will help give you a classy future daughter.

8. Building fires is their hidden talent... if you ever get stuck on a deserted island with them they can help you.

9. Animal shirts are a common clothing item... they know how to have fun.

10. They throw killer dance parties... ones your grandma would approve of.

11. They are used to being publicly embarrassed for others (their campers') enjoyment... and usually can take a joke or prank well.

12. They also know how to prank you back... summer camp prepares you for awesome prank wars.

13. If you want to see her with no makeup on just look at her camp photos... natural beauty?

14. They actually love children... they chose to spend a whole summer loving other people's kids; imagine how awesome they will treat their own.

15. Chances are they are a really fun person and will bring out your inner child... yes, climb that random tree and paint your face because it is Wednesday.

16. Their "real job" will come later in life... they will end up being successful. Most employers love to hire former counselors, so it is not a waste of a summer.

17. They know how to hide their favorites in life really well... so if they choose to date you they are basically saying you are their favorite and that is a big deal to them.

18. They have learned how to eat unhealthy food every day for a whole summer and stay in shape... or try to at least.

19. They also are obviously not a diva when it comes to material needs...they went a whole summer without even air conditioning and never complained.

20. If they love you anything like they love their campers your needs will always be put first...they are some of the most selfless people you will ever meet.

21. They love God, living for Him, and have already made a difference in many children's lives... they are the real MVPS.

If you are still looking for a place to work this summer and love adventure, Jesus, and children, apply for Camp Crestridge for Girls; they still have many positions available. I'll be there so you should too!

If you are a boy apply for Camp Ridgecrest for Boys!

Related Content

Connect with a generation
of new voices.

We are students, thinkers, influencers, and communities sharing our ideas with the world. Join our platform to create and discover content that actually matters to you.

Learn more Start Creating
Facebook Comments