This is one of the most exciting times of the year for sorority families. Everyone is getting new family members and expanding their family traditions. I still can’t believe that I joined Alpha Omicron Pi over a year ago and that I am now a big. Over the past year I have learned so much from my big, and I only hope I can be half as good of a big to my little as she has been to me. Here are just a few of the things she has taught me that I will never forget.

4. She is your go to person.
My big has always been there for me no matter what. Part of being a big is being available to your little whenever she needs you, no matter the time of day or what you are doing. My big has done this flawlessly. I know she will come to my side in a split second if I ever need her.

3. She knows how to have fun.
Ever in need of a good laugh? Your big has you covered. She knows how to have a good time, and she makes sure you do too. She loves making you smile. A family night out on the town is a must, but staying in and watching a movie is just as important.

2. She isn’t just your big but she is one of your best friends.
The best big-little relationships are ones that are friendships. My big not only knows how to be the best big in the world, but she also knows how to be the best friend in the world. She knows if you are upset and she knows if you are happy because she is truly your closest ally.

1. She loves you unconditionally.
If there is one thing I have learned from my big it is that she loves me no matter what. If I am having a bad day and not the nicest, she still loves me. If I am being obnoxious, she still smiles and gives me a loving hug. Her love never fails and her support never ceases. She has taught me so much, but the most important lesson she has taught me by far is that never-ending love and support is the best gift you can give to your little.