It's my first time writing and I don't know where to start. I am here because I wanted to share my situational relationship with a close friend of mine I don't have or no one to talk with that is why I came here I was searching for an online app that I can share and there might be someone out there to share few of their thoughts.

I have been single for 2 yrs. because my husband has been incarcerated causes of vices. we shared 3 beautiful children I have teenagers 15,13 and 8 yrs. old on the 1st yr. of my husband was in jail it felt fine nothing was missing not until I met this friend of mine he open up and it made me realize so much.

I don't really know where or how then we become friends it just happened. At 1st he was sending messages out of nowhere but I don't really entertain them because I was thinking he was just concerned about me; months have pass and we began to be close and we started to exchange messages which turn out into late-night talks and dates.

What really bothers me is that I know he told me that he is not into a serious relationship, his not the married type but when were together he would tell that he wanted me solely and that I should not leave him. He shows me some things that I feel are special. I know it's a red flag/signs that I should be running away.

Why would I bother myself with this? Is it because I attract the same vibe, does it mean I myself a red flag? oh man, I wanted to ask him but I don't know how or when and If it's the right time.

Okay, this time is the perfect time to keep my space and give him time to think. Please do not respond to his text message just what Steve said if a man wants you look what he is willing to sacrifice and not what he can give.

good night!

late thinker