Let Kids Dress The Way They Want, They Don't Know Clothes Have A "Gender"

Let Kids Dress The Way They Want, They Don't Know Clothes Have A "Gender"

Celebrities' children have started to become fashion icons in the past few years. With them being dressed in head-to-toe designer, it seems more like they're headed to a runway than to a daycare.


Celebrities' children have started to become fashion icons in the past few years. With them being dressed in head-to-toe designer, it seems more like they're headed to a runway than to a daycare. When kids like North West step out in all Givenchy, no one really has anything to say other than the child is a "style icon."

However, when other celebrity kids are seen wearing costumes or clothes that "aren't meant for them" it seems as if the world is ending. Take, for example, Megan Fox's kids. one of her sons was photographed in an Elsa dress and the internet kind of lost it.

Megan Fox and two of her sons.

Most people were praising Fox for not forcing gender roles on her children and allowing them to dress as they please. But, with anything on the internet, some people hated it. There was a whole thread of tweets littered with things like "if my son were ever to dress like this, I would kick him out of my house." For some reason, people tend to think that "not enforcing gender roles" is the same as "forcing your child to be gay."

From the picture of Megan Fox's kids, you can tell quite easily that she allows them to dress however they please, as the outfits look like something I would have put together when I was a kid.

Now I'm not saying that North West doesn't want to wear what she has on, but, considering that she has a stylist and a father that owns his own clothing company, there is a slight chance that not all of her outfits are her own choosing.

There has, however, always been a big issue with children wearing clothes that "aren't meant for them." This exceeds past boys in dresses and branches into the clothes marketed to kids. Girl shirts tend to lean more towards pink and sparkles whereas boy shirts are darker with trucks on them. When it comes to clothes from franchises like Disney or Marvel, girls clothes are limited to the few female superheroes or shirts that say "Spiderman is my boyfriends." On the other hand, boys shirts feature only male superheroes.

This strongly enforces false narratives on children that, just because they're a boy, they can't like pink or female superheroes and, just because they're a girl, they can't like trucks or want to be Spiderman.

As a kid, I used to wear boy's shorts and t-shirts, and even now I own clothing from the men's department. My parents never told me that it was wrong for me to shop in the boy's department because it isn't. When we tell kids that there are things that are off-limits to them because of their gender, they gain the mindset that is more than outdated. Girls start to think that careers like engineering or construction are off-limits, boys start to think that they shouldn't want to raise children. We start to mess with the minds of children.

Just let kids dress the way they want. If that means wearing a costume 6 days a week, or a suit, or a little boy wearing a skirt. Just let kids be kids and don't force non-existent rules on them.

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47 Things All Female Athletes Have Said

Yes, I know I am sweating a lot. No, I do not enjoy practices. Yes, I have said all 47 of these.

Whether you're a collegiate athlete, or a high school one, you have probably found yourself saying most of these phrases. Us athletes know that the athlete life isn't for everyone, and we often find ourselves questioning if it's still for us. So, this is for all my fellow athletes.

All my fellow athletes who know the struggle is undoubtedly real, and who find themselves saying these 47 phrases almost as often as I do.

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1. Do you have an extra hair tie?

2. What if we just said no? What if we just didn't run when the whistle is blown?

3. I, like, really, am not feeling practice today.

4. Do these pants make my quads look big?

5. Are you going to eat before or after practice?

6. I'm so sore.

7. Want to get McDonald's after practice?

8. Did you see that she wore makeup to a preseason practice?

9. I actually looked like a girl today.

10. I wonder what college would be like if I wasn't an athlete.

11. We're up before the sun way too often.

12. Is it gross if I don't shower after weights?

13. How hard do you think practice will be today?

14. Coach is literally crazy.

15. I ate like 20 minutes ago, so there's a 50% chance I puke during this practice.

16. I'm not going to drink the protein shake they gave us because it's going to make me gain weight.

17. I think my legs are bigger than his, so I can't date him.

18. I think my arms are bigger than his, so I can't date him.

19. Today in class a non-athlete was talking about how busy her schedule is. It was so annoying.

20. Thinking about preseason makes me want to cry.

21. Is it even healthy for us to have this many practices in one day?

22. I'll be right back, I'm having PGD (pre-game dumps).

23. I think I'm going to throw up.

24. I should have worked out more on my own.

25. How do other girls have the energy to put makeup on for class every day?

26. My legs are dead.

27. Why did we think being a college athlete was a good idea?

28. Do you think coach will be mad if I have to go pee?

29. I think I peed my pants a little bit during conditioning.

30. Should I wear my hair in a pony-tail, or in a bun?

31. I should probably start eating healthy soon.

32. Only six more practices until the weekend, we can do this.

33. I'd rather be sore for a week straight than climb into this ice bath.

34. They might have beat us, but at least we're still pretty.

35. I can't wait to celebrate our win this weekend.

36. How many hours of sleep did you get? I got 6, it was crazy, I feel so refreshed.

37. I look like such a boy right now.

38. Will you braid my hair?

39. That referee totally rigged the game. We should have won.

40. I think I'd hate being a reg (regular student).

41. It's OK if I eat this since we had conditioning this morning, right?

42. If you're not doing homework, get off the bus Wi-Fi, everybody.

43. These pants fit my legs perfectly but are huge on my waist.

44. I smell so bad right now that I can smell myself.

45. I bet my grades would be so much better if I wasn't an athlete.

46. Coach only gave us, like, one water break during practice. It was horrible.

47. I am so happy that I'm an athlete.

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I Used To Think Height Didn't Matter, But Maybe It Really Does

I've come to a conclusion


I've had my fair share of boyfriends in the past. A common theme in my past choices of boys is that they were all an inch or two taller than me or the same height. Now, I am a little on the taller side considering that the average height for a woman in the US is 5 feet 4 inches tall. I'm not saying all the tall boys belong to all the tall girls and the shorter guys should stick with shorter girls, but I do think there might be something behind all this madness.

My reasoning for this is simple: I've been in an amazing relationship with someone who is fairly taller than me. Is this reason totally irrational and have no sort of concrete evidence for this argument? Yes, totally, but hear me out. All my other relationships haven't been this good or even had the potential to be this good. Is it a coincidence that they were all shorter? I think not!

There is absolutely nothing wrong with boys who are under 5'9''. There are some nice ones who probably don't talk to 5 other girls while you're dating, I just never happened to come across one back when I was in the game. I just find it interesting that I've been in a really healthy relationship for awhile now with someone who is over 6 feet tall.

Many amazing relationships have happened between all different types of people, no matter the height. It's just if you are having problems with boys who are under 6 feet, you may have some thinking to do.

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