I never knew that when we first met back in 2010 that our life would dramatically change for the better. Little did we know that in the year 2017 we would still be connected after all those years and our future together would officially start. It was a long 7 years of figuring out who we wanted to be and nothing could have prepared us for this. We needed those years to find other people who thought would be it for us before we even knew that we were supposed to be with eachother from the beginning. You changed my life and my heart thanks you for that. I was a lost girl with a fear of getting into a relationship because she had been single for so long and had been hurt by the same person multiple times. Then you came along and changed my perspective on relationships. I knew that there would never be a way that you would even be able to not love me. As our lives have gotten complicated and busy almost 3 years later we both have grown so much together individually and as one. You taught my heart how to love again and I will never forget that feeling. My life is better with you in it and I'm forever thankful for the relationship we have as a couple.
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StableDiffusion
For a while I am killing it then all of sudden BAM! I crash and burn out. My goal is to avoid this for the coming year. Taking care of myself needs to become a priority. I cannot be used or fully get everything out of my education if I am not taking care of myself mentally.
Here are some ways I plan to take care of myself:
Keep a Journal
Today I am Grateful Journal
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Having a way to record everything going on is a major way I clear my head. For some reason when I am anxious and overwhelmed writing it down decreases my anxiety about the issue.
Go to the gym
Go to the gym
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I know everyone says they are going to go to the gym for their new year's resolution and unfortunately a commitment like that is not always realistic. I hope including the gym in my overall goal of self-care will make it possible to achieve.
Listen to Music
Listen to more music
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Music is a major relaxer to me clears my head and brings me back to what I really need to be focused on.
Be more patient
Have more patience
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I need to be more patient and think my decisions through. So goal of mine is to be more in the moment and not always be so ready to plan the future.
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Pro: PRESENTS! PRESENTS! PRESENTS!
This is the blessing in disguise of all of the madness of having a birthday near Christmas. You get a lot of gifts, birthday and Christmas combine together to be a big gathering and gifts for everyone!!
Con: "This is your Christmas AND your birthday present."
The most used phrase for anyone who has a birthday remotely near the holidays. The convenience for someone to buy one gift is great for them, but sometimes it would be nice to have some separation between your birthday gifts and your Christmas gifts.
Pro: Your entire family shows up to celebrate your birthday!
Mom, Dad, Grandma, Grandpa, aunts, uncles, cousins, EVERYONE is there to help you celebrate your birthday. Being surrounded by family on your special day is great.
Con: You probably won't have a birthday party.
If your birthday is near the holidays you probably understand this: a birthday party is basically non-existent for you. A birthday party near the holidays means little to no guest attendance because of holiday travels or possibly bad roads on the day of your birthday. You will probably get the "how was your birthday?" or "what did you do to celebrate your birthday, did you have a party?" The answer is you probably did not.
Pro: It snows on your birthday!!!
All I ever wanted for my birthday was for it to snow. I love when it snows on my birthday; it is so magical to me to have a beautiful white blanket of snow glittering across the land.
Con: It snows on your birthday.
There is probably a large possibility that if it does snow on your birthday and it's bad, you probably won't be going anywhere. So be ready to hunker down with just your immediate family and not plan on getting on the roads. But you can sled on your birthday!!!
Pro: Lots of decorations for your birthday!
Lights, lights everywhere!!! The land is festive, magical and exciting, it truly feels wonderful to see so much joy in the air.
Pro: You get a lot of food if family Christmas is on your birthday.
If you love food as much as I do, family Christmas on your birthday is a little slice of heaven!!!! Food everywhere!! All of your favorites, plus the festive holiday treats and candy that you only get near the holiday season (hello Christmas cookies!!)!!!
Pro: So much to celebrate and be thankful for.
Your excuse for over-eating could be that it's Christmas AND your birthday, so you have a lot to celebrate.
Pro: I get to share my birthday with my Dad.
Though having a birthday party near the holidays can be rough, it is wonderful to share it with someone as wonderful as my Dad. Some might say it's a burden to share such as a special day with someone, but it's truly a blessing for me. Plus, I'm the coolest birthday present he has ever gotten.
Enjoy this holiday season and don't forget your friends and family who have birthday nears this festive time.
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