Everything You Need To Know About The James Charles And Tati Westbrook Feud

Everything You Need To Know About The James Charles And Tati Westbrook Feud

This isn't just another sister scandal.


The James Charles v. Tati Westbrook drama has been arguably the most memorable YouTube feud in 2019.

On May 11, 2019, Tati Westbrook, a 37-year-old beauty blogger, uploaded a 43-minute video entitled "BYE SISTER..." exposing 19-year-old makeup artist James Charles for two main actions: selfishly endorsing her top competitor for her vitamin product and for using his celebrity status to prey on straight men even with the knowledge that they are straight.

James Charles found fame when a tweet of his wearing a full face of makeup in a yearbook photo went viral. He then found success as the first male CoverGirl, and amassed a whopping 16 million+ subscribers on YouTube. Before the scandal, he even attended the Met Gala on May 6. Not even a week after the event, Charles lost more than 3 million subscribers after Tati uploaded her video. Even stars like Miley Cyrus, Kylie Jenner, Katy Perry, Demi Lovato, Tana Mongeau and Shawn Mendes have unfollowed him on various social media platforms, not to mention Grayson Dolan, Ethan Dolan, and Emma Chamberlain, his fellow members of the "Sister Squad."

The James Charles tweet that went viral and began his careerheightline.com

However, James is no stranger to scandals. In February of 2017, prior to a school trip to Africa, James tweeted, "I can't believe we're going to Africa today omg what if we get Ebola?" which many found extremely offensive. He defended himself by saying that he was simply making fun of his friends mistake, "but did not think about what the tweet as a whole was implying." In April of 2019, James revealed that he was going on a nationwide tour to meet his subscribers, but fans were frustrated to find out that the tickets ranged in price from $60.50 to $551.50. The $500 package included a pre-show hangout with James, a professional picture opportunity, and a goodie bag valued at around $250. James responded, "I am sorry that we disappointed many of you. We have worked very hard to put this tour together and want it to be accessible for everyone & an amazing experience no matter the ticket."

James Charles' tour pricesreddit.com

Tati Westbrook, formerly known as GlamLifeGuru on YouTube, posts beauty hauls, tutorials, and reviews on her channel and earned nearly 6 million subscribers before uploading her video about James Charles. Westbrook chose to take James under her wing when he was only 17 years old when he was just starting out as a YouTuber, even allowing him to do her makeup on her wedding day. As he began to gain success, Westbrook continued to promote him on her channel, constantly encouraging her subscribers to use his code "James" for 10% off on a Morphe order, thus supporting his sponsorship with Morphe Cosmetics. She said in her video that she "wrapped as much love as [she] could around this kid, more from a parental stance than... a best friend stance." But seeing his story advertising Sugar Bear Hair was the last straw. Westbrook defended herself for uploading the video by saying that James betrayed her trust, and that if things were handled privately, her words would be twisted.

In her video, Westbrook's first claim was that James lied about his contract with Sugar Bear Hair. James posted an Instagram story endorsing Sugar Bear Hair vitamins, the rival of Westbrook's own brand Halo Beauty, saying they provided him with security during Coachella. Though this specific action might not seem like a big deal from an outside perspective, Westbrook emphasized that James previously refused to endorse Halo Beauty because of his younger audience, but he suddenly had no problem supporting Sugar Bear Hair. She claimed that James even lied about how he obtained the contract from Sugar Bear Hair, saying that it's impossible the company had extra artist passes worth thousands of dollars. Westbrook then explained that she and her husband James aided James Charles tremendously in jumpstarting his career, from helping him monetize his videos (causing him to immediately make $2500 each video) to getting him a sponsorship with StyleHaul, known for its influencer campaigns with major cosmetic brands, when no one wanted to work with him after his Ebola scandal.

Westbrook's second claim was that James used to his fame to prey on straight men for his own sexual gratification. She claims, "You're [pressuring straight men] to have them behave sexually in your favor, even if they're straight, and you know what, that's not okay." Westbrook is probably alluding to the situation with James and model Gage Gomez, who James brought to this year's Coachella. Gage uploaded a video saying that he was bi-curious and simply wanted to attend Coachella with James to see where their relationship could go, but James tweeted that Gage was "a disgusting con artist." Westbrook also explained a situation at her birthday dinner where James outwardly described the sexual acts he wanted to perform on the waiter. When she told him he was straight, James responded, "It doesn't matter; I'm a celebrity." Upon the release of the video, many stories of his predatory acts began to emerge including those of the waiter in Westbrook's video, Swedish singer Zara Larsson's boyfriend, and even classmates who went to high school with James.

In response to Westbrook's video, James posted an 8-minute apology video, which has become the 9th most disliked videos on YouTube, at around 2.8 million dislikes. Many people thought the apology was insincere and scripted. In his emotional apology, James said, "I hate knowing that I disappointed not only [my fans], but two people [Tati and James Westbrook] that have been role models for me doing this." He also apologized for the boy situation, stating, "I've been involved with very unique and strange situations that have left people very confused and upset, and I've learned the hard way about ways that I can interact with boys I'm interested in and also ones that I should or shouldn't be talking to." Finally, when addressing his own mother, James gets emotional, appearing to fight back tears (even though no tears are actually visible). He says, "Mom, I know you want to defend me, and fight for me, and go off on comments, but I ask that you don't—this is my problem that I got myself into and this is my job to deal with this."

To insert my opinion into this situation, I would side more with Tati Westbrook. This is not to say that Westbrook was a little bit in the wrong with the fact that this debacle could have been handled privately, but I still understand the reasons behind why she uploaded the video. Even though James denies many of the allegations Westbrook brought up, enough people have come forward to make me believe that James is a predator and has let the fame and money get to his head. Yes, James is 19 years old and young people make mistakes, but James is also fully an adult and can think for himself. It's surprising that the numerous scandals have not caused him to learn his lesson, and it took Westbrook's tell-all video and losing millions of subscribers to humble James a little bit. Even then, James only apologized for what he did, but didn't necessarily own up to it. The apology video seemed more like damage control rather than an actual change of character.

While it is unknown what will happen to James Charles' career, I hope that James doesn't treat this as just another scandal. Even those who were once subscribed to him know that something about this feud was different than his previous ones, and they unsubscribed for a reason. I hope he takes some time to rethink his brand and how he carries himself online, but for now, James truly needs to take some time away from the public light before he makes anything worse.

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18 Times Kate Middleton Was Actually All Of Us In College, Beside The Princess Thing

Every girl has to go through her clueless college stage before she reaches Duchess status.

Kate Middleton is basically a household name by now, and how could this not be the case when she has the gorgeous hair, kind smile, and incredible fashion sense. With her constantly in the spotlight looking so put together, we sometimes forget that the Duchess was actually all of us in college!

Here are 18 times that Kate proved she was just like all of us.

1. Going all out in the name of school spirit

There is nothing like breaking out the war paint and screaming for your home team. Like Kate, we all love to get a little messy and make some memories with our friends.

2. Hanging out with the roomies

Some people may not get lucky in this area but for those who are best friends with their roommates, they understand the love. It's a dream come true for everyone who has always wanted to live with their best friends. It's like a sleepover that never ends.

3. Dressing up cute on the first day of school...

You got to make a good first impression on your way to school. Whether it's during your 7 A.M or 4 P.M., it's always best to dress to impress.

4. ...and wearing yoga pants for the rest of the year

And this goes all the way until the last week of school when you don't bother getting out of bed to wear pants at all.

5. Going grocery shopping and throwing in cookies, ice-cream, and every type of Pringles because your mom isn't there to say no

You'll probably regret that in a few months when the Freshman Fifteen kicks in.

6. Walking for miles from your car to your dorm carrying groceries

We can't park by the apartment for a solid five minutes to carry our groceries up to the kitchen or we will risk a ticket, but we can walk a few miles carrying food that gets heavier, and heavier, and heavier with every step.

7. Going out for a night on the town on a Friday night

Dancing, laughter, and fun? Everyone in college has been to a party or two. It's a classic part of the college experience. Sometimes you just need a distraction from all the essays and tests.

8. Being so late to class you threw on whatever your hands grabbed next

We've all been there. Our alarm doesn't go off, we press snooze a few too many times, or forget to even set an alarm and next thing you know we are running around the dorm room like Taz from Looney Toons. You throw on whatever, then run to class.

Unfortunately 9/10 times our outfits don't turn out. Although, Kate can certainly pull off this look, no matter how mismatched.

9. Pretending your walking to the same building as the cute boy you met so you have the excuse to keep talking to him

I am very guilty of doing this. Although I missed my class, at least I got to talk to the really cute boy who has class at 9:45 in the STEM building. It was worth it.

10. Sitting on the floor or standing because you're a poor college student who can't afford chairs or tables

Eating on the floor? Always. Being a college kid is tough and sometimes you have to sacrifice some things to obtain the others. Such as choosing chocolate milk and Halo Top over vegetables and hair conditioner.

Judging by Kate's beautiful locks, she chose the conditioner.

Probably the vegetables too.

We should just all follow her example.

11. Going on cute date with the boy you followed to class-turned-boyfriend

Now my short-lived romance may not have extended farther than us talking and walking to his class, but Kate and William obviously had a better ending. Nevertheless, college is the place to grow and date and possibly find the one.

12. Keeping your hair long and growing because you can't afford to get it cut

Don't trust your roommate. No matter how many times she begs you to let her cut it. Don't.

13. Turning 21 and getting dressed up and going out with your best friends

While this one probably doesn't apply to Kate, since you can drink at age 18 in most countries, all my people in the United States know the sweet freedom of turning 21. It's an iconic time in a students life and marks a huge milestone as well.

14. Passing out flyers for some type of movement or protest

Everyone wants to be a part of something bigger - which is why college is the time to stand up for what you believe in. May that be RedforEd, Planned Parenthood, anti-Abortion, Trump, the Wall, pizza bagels, it's all an exercise of the first amendment.

15. Ranting to your friends about the professor that just "doesn't understand you"

You know your thinking about that professor right now as you read this. And you know that that's your reaction whenever they give you a bad grade or say something you disagree with at the tiniest degree.

16. Getting glammed-up for those senior photos

Pick out your best outfit and make sure it's a good hair day because everyone will be viewing these photos forever... and in Kate's place that is more than true. Luckily she looks as gorgeous as ever. Does she ever have a bad hair day?

17. Walking out of your last class knowing you'll never have to write a single paper again

And purposefully not thinking about how you will be going into the real world in less than a few days.

18. When you've graduated and realized you have no idea what you're going to do with your life

Maybe a prince will be right around the corner to sweep you off your feet so you won't have to figure your life out.
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The Kate Spade Foundation Follows Through On Their Million Dollar Promise

One year and a million dollars later, the fight against mental health issues continues.


Going through a mental illness can be one of the most isolating and lonely feelings known to man. When you're in that state of mind it's hard to imagine that anyone could feel as bad as you do right then and there let alone have gone through something similar. Not only that, but many people will suffer in silence, avoiding speaking up or asking for help. Which, if anyone who's battled a mental illness would know, is not an uncommon feeling.

It's hard to speak up and ask for help, especially with something that feels so deeply personal and at times hard to describe. Many people find ways to cope and regain a balance in their lives. Many others never find that balance.

Roughly one year ago, on June 5, 2018, Kate Spade took her own life after battling depression and anxiety for nearly her entire life. It seemed completely out of the blue and nearly everyone was taken aback. But that's the nature of mental illness in some ways. We don't understand the severity or how deeply someone may have been struggling with their mental illness until it's too late.

The reality of mental health is often harrowing, especially when it comes to access to help. An increasing number of Americans are seeking help for a mental health condition but millions still remain with unmet needs or an undiagnosed condition. Many states with a mental health work provider workforce have only one worker for every four individuals requesting therapy.

But there are organizations across the nation who are working to make mental health care not only more accessible but affordable as well. The Kate Spade New York Foundation has just completed their $1 million donation pledge to mental health services such as The Jed Foundation and the Crisis Text Line.

Kate Spade's death, alongside those such as Anthony Bourdain and Robin Williams, proved to many of us that mental health issues affect us all regardless of our wealth, fame or status. In the time following their deaths, I felt that we've become more honest with ourselves and worked hard to destigmatize mental health as a whole. Her death raised the conversation surrounding mental health to new levels that I don't think had previously been touched. Regardless, there's always more work to be done and we should all aspire to live in a world where those affected with these illnesses no longer feel alone.

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