In today's world, there are controversial issues popping up every day. You can't get on Facebook without seeing an article about transgender bathrooms or Donald Trump. If you click on the comments of those articles you're bound to see people throwing insults every which way and arguing about why their opinion is more correct than the other person's. Yes, the social and political climate of America is very heated, which will undoubtedly spark strong opinions and difficult conversations; one of the best things about this country is we are allowed to speak our minds.

However, it's cringe worthy to see people stoop to name calling and cutting others down just because they think they're right. I don't get angry about much, but it upsets me when adults can't have a conversation where they can agree to disagree. Opinions will always be diverse and there will always be someone who disagrees with you but I think that as a society, we should be able to understand and appreciate a different side of the argument.

Choosing hate will only produce more hate. If you have an opportunity to show love and respect, you will be amazed at how different the reaction will be. When there is disrespect and anger, no one will hear your argument, because how can anyone see past immaturity? Set the tone for a new atmosphere, one of consideration, of thoughtfulness. Cast out name calling when you discuss controversial subjects; instead, decide to hear other people's thoughts, which are just as valid as yours, and keep things civil. Part of becoming an adult is learning how to pick your battles, and I don't think our battles should be with strangers over Facebook comments, but with this environment filled with anger and loathing.

Time will always bring new controversies, new issues that take over social media. Strong opinions will be backed by strong arguments and there will be more opportunities for disagreement. Allow people to be heard, even if you feel differently than they do; differences don't require fights. I treasure the ability to have my opinions be heard, and I would appreciate a society in which I can share them without getting cut down and told I'm wrong.

It's time to choose love and forget hate. I refuse to let the undertone of today's society make me think it's ever acceptable to be rude, to yell, or to call someone a "southern baby boomer mother", (yes I did hear someone say that). If I have a right to my opinion, then so does everyone else. Screw the attitude of entitlement that has become all too common and set an example worth following.