We all know in the world we live in people aren't always generous.
To the people that constantly get put down by others, especially if it's someone you haven't even had a conversation with. The sporadic world that we live in tends to bite us in the ass sometimes. My advice to you is to know that people only care about themselves. Everyone does things to benefit themselves and although that may be a hard concept to grasp and understand, know that you must do the same. Care for yourself, but, also care for others; although don't care about others more than yourself because it will lead to you being unhappy.
I've recently encountered a wonderful human being who pointed out to me that there are kind people in the world, in fact there are lots of them. But, there are also many people who are imprisoned in their mind and act out which may make them seem quite awful. There are people that are feeling bad about themselves but will cover it and make their thoughts become their actions. This means that people could be really jealous of you or want to be you and they will say awful things about you, especially when it comes to boys. Girls will throw you in front of a bus if it means they get the guy they want. Our society shouldn't be like this because boyfriends are most likely temporary, people are temporary. That is the biggest thing I learned this year. People are going to come into your life and treat it as a vacancy or a motel- people will come and go when they please, that is life.
If someone is constantly putting you down take it as a compliment that they are spending that much time out of their day to think about you. You are running through their thoughts like a treadmill. They may say negative things to you or completely destroy you but take that as a life lesson. Look at it as you are far more better than them, you don't take the time out of your day to ruin someone else's. Some people stay trapped in teenage behaviors for the rest of their lives. Look at it as you are moving forward and maturing.
People want to get a rise out of you... they live off of it, if you pay no attention to it, it will piss them off more. So piss off the people that do these things to you instead of satisfying them because at the end of the day you know that you didn't stoop down to some ignorant child's level.
My advice to you is that you should ignore it, ignore all the negative bull. Do you and don't care what other people think, you know who you are. If you have friends that are doing this to you cut them off and find some better ones, it is all really that simple.
