How It Feels When You Have An Instant Connection With Someone

How It Feels When You Have An Instant Connection With Someone

"The spark that binds us."

We connect in different ways with people. In friendships and relationships, we have our many connections based off of personalities, interests, and comfortability. We never know what is going to happen when we first meet someone. Sometimes you just click right away and sometimes you don't, but that's life. These connections that we build can take time or it could just be that you aren't compatible.

I love those moments where you meet someone and you instantly click. You just vibe off each other and it feels like you've known each other for a long time. That kind of chemistry and instant connection we feel with someone is the best kind because it kind of takes away the awkwardness and you can be your real self with them. It doesn't mean you have to pour out your heart and soul, but you just feel an energy that makes you want to know more.

It's that magnetic force, the click, as they say. You meet that person and you realize that you keep gravitating towards them. That little barrier is broken and you don't even know how you became so comfortable. When you speak and you have things in common, it brings you closer. I've met people where we connected but we didn't really have much in common nor did I know anything about them, but because I was so infatuated with their personality and the idea of them, it took some time to realize that there was no substance to our conversations and that we would be better off as friends.

I believe in vibes and I believe that when you "vibe" with someone, especially on an intellectual level, nothing compares to that and that's beautiful. That energy you feel doesn't lie. Listen to your intuition. Believe in your vibes and your heart. Allow yourself to feel those connections because those are the best kind.

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To The Boy Who Made Me Love Again

Thank you for loving me and showing me how to love myself.


To the boy who made me love again:

From the very beginning of our relationship, you showed me you were different. You showed me how I should be treated.

After dating someone for three years, falling in love was the last thing I wanted to do again. I did not want to grow close to anyone and fall in love with every little aspect of someone, but with you, it was so much different. You were different from other guys I had talked to. You have done small things for me that make me so happy. From offering to order me pizzas while I'm working to ordering me a key chain that says "drive safe," it's the little things you've done to make me love you.

During my previous relationship, I had come to a custom of pulling out my card to pay for dates and thought it was okay to accept the fact that good morning text did not exist. Every morning since we started dating, you never forget to text me good morning. We almost fight over who is going to pay, because I can't expect you to pay for every date. You have shown me what to expect in a relationship.

You never fail to make me happy. Whenever I say I'm hungry, you get me Mexican. When I want to watch Netflix, you immediately put on The Office. I can mention one thing I want and you buy it because you know it will make me happy. You give me forehead kisses and it puts a smile on my face. Whenever I am upset, you won't get off the phone until you figure out what is wrong and make sure everything is okay.

You make me feel beautiful. I can come over in leggings and socks and Birkenstocks or I can come over in a nice shirt and booties, but either way, you tell me I'm beautiful. Whenever I just wake up and look a hot mess, you look me in my eyes and tell me I'm beautiful.

You always tell me to be careful whenever I'm driving and you make sure to tell me you love me every night before you go to bed. You remind me of things I know I'll forget and you literally read my mind. You motivate me with my schooling and tell me how proud you are of me when I make a good grade.

I never wanted to date again and I especially did not want to fall in love; however, you are everything I dreamed of wanting. I am so blessed to have met you and fallen in love with you. So to the boy who made me want to love again, I love you and thank you for everything.

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