I was at Target the other day for a usual grocery run with a friend of mine when we passed by the clothing section. More specifically, the lingerie section. There just so happened to be a very cute matching bra and panty set that I had my eyes on. My friend, noticing this, encouraged me to buy it. I decided not to, refusing to purchase the low quality garments.

Now, my usual mind set when when shopping is, “Cheaper is better.” When it comes to lingerie, the opposite is true. Yes, I will spend $60 on a nude bra. My bra is my best friend. Sorry, roommate, but it’s true.

You may be thinking, “Wow, why is she being so picky? It’s just a bra.” No, it’s not just a bra. (See the above Best Friend status.) For those of you who think bras aren't that important, either because you don’t wear or don’t have to wear one, let me fill you in: Lingerie is my secret weapon.

Having a bad day? Put on those hot pink lace boy shorts. I can guarantee you will be feel 10 times better already. Going to a job interview you’re nervous about? The black skull hipsters are a good choice. Boom. Badass already. Cute undies make me feel like I can take over the world. Not only do I know I look good, but I’ve spent time and money on myself. I am a huge advocate of self love and self care that goes beyond working out and eating healthy. Full face makeup? Full speed ahead. Hour long bubble baths? Is that even a question? Spending money on cute undies? Hell. Yes.

Expensive lingerie goes beyond giving you confidence. It says that you're selective. If I have to wear this everyday for 12-plus hours, you bet it’s gonna be nice. Picking lingerie is like picking a boyfriend. You want support, care, and a little attitude. Settling for an ill-fitting-give-you-neck-pain isn’t acceptable when it comes to boys. Or to lingerie. You want high quality take-you-to-the-most-expensive-place-in-town-and-include-a-massage boyfriend. And lingerie.

So yes, I may spend exorbitant amounts on underwear, but at the end of the day when I don’t have red marks and sore breasts, who's the obvious winner?