5 Different Forms Of Birth Control Later, It's Time For Medical Marijuana

5 Different Forms Of Birth Control Later, It's Time For Medical Marijuana

I'm tired of my doctor brushing me off and you should be too.

For the past 5 years of my life, I have had to deal with doctors not taking me seriously when I walk into their office and tell them I have severe cramps; I've been told to "just take Advil" and have been treated like I'm lying about my condition to get birth control for sex.

It's time for doctors to understand that everyone experiences their period cramps differently. Some experience cramps a few days before their period and some don't experience them at all. But then there are women, like me, who suffer from cramps every single day of their lives and still aren't taken seriously. There are even diseases associated with periods that increase the severity of cramps but it is still looked over and perceived as an exaggeration.

Over the past five years, I have been on five different kinds of birth control from pills, the NuvaRing and even an IUD. Every time I start a new birth control I am told that the new method of contraception that I am taking will definitely ease my cramps only to find that they make them 10x worse. The next form of medicine that my doctor is going to suggest will be opiates, they would rather prescribe you a highly addictive drug instead of taking the time out of their day to listen and understand. So I'm going to talk about something doctors should do instead of brushing us off...

Prescribe medical marijuana for CHRONIC cramps.

I'm not saying they should hand out medical marijuana cards to every woman who experiences cramps once a month but doctors should consider writing a prescription for those who suffer almost every day, like myself. Research has shown that cannabis is highly effective for treating pain, which suggests that it would do the same for chronic period cramps and endometriosis.

Many people have tried using medical marijuana to treat cramps including Whoopi Goldberg and Maya Elisabeth who have started their own company to help provide relief for those who suffer from severe period cramps. You can also find that Queen Victoria reportedly used cannabis to treat her discomfort in ancient Mesopotamia.

Despite the proven research on marijuana use to treat cramps, doctors will prescribe birth control and opiates before cannabis even crosses their mind. Medical Marijuana is legal in only 29 states but in none of those states is it legal for the treatment of severe period cramps. Instead, it is prescribed for 'chronic pain.'

I, along with many other women, consider my period cramps to be chronic. I experience them almost every single day of my life, despite having an IUD.

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How Good Is 'The Good Doctor?'

Some see a disability, others see the human beneath.

Many have seen, if not heard of ABC's new show "The Good Doctor," which shares a story about Dr. Shaun Murphy and his journey as a doctor and individual. Dr. Murphy is unique in his own right; being diagnosed with both Autism--rather the higher functioning version of Aspergers and Savant syndrome.

Personally, I believe, especially in today's world, that mental health is often spared from many conversations; yet when we stop to reflect, we realize how important our mental health is in order to live a better life. This is definitely a show to help us as a society to get there.

The show brings to light common aspects that are often overlooked, such as prejudices, mental health, and themes like honesty, determination to beat criticism, and real-life situations among many others with a bit of comic relief to pacify the mood.

For starters, the Encyclopedia of Children's Health defines the psychopathology as occurring "when a person with below normal intelligence displays a special talent or ability in a specific area." Whereas the same source defines Autism as "a severely incapacitating developmental disorder of brain function characterized by three major types of symptoms: impaired social interaction, problems with verbal and nonverbal communication, and unusual or severely limited activities and interests;" yet, Dr. Murphy is even more of a special case as he fits the description as "autistic savant."

It may seem oxymoronic, being considered a higher-functioning autistic while also being a savant, yet the Autism Research Institute states that the abnormality "refers to individuals with autism who have extraordinary skills not exhibited by most persons," which is indeed applied to the character within the show.

Moreover, savant skills are not confined entirely to the autistic community, and neither are all autistic individuals savants. A 1978 article in Psychology Today, written by Dr. Bernard Rimland, coined the more appropriate term 'autistic savant,' as the contemporary label away from the French meaning of an unlearned idiot; benefitting the stigmatized and those outside looking towards the nature of the syndrome as a whole.

Especially with an estimated prevalence of savant abilities within autistic individuals being 10%, while prevalence within the non-autistic community, in addition to those with mental retardation (cognitively impaired), is less than one percent.

Moreover, the most notable forms of savant ability involve mathematical calculations, memory feats, artistic abilities, and musical abilities. Out of these, Dr. Murphy exhibits memory feats; where he instantaneously recalls parts of the human anatomy; say the heart's ventricles and circuitous pathways, and thinks of a possible solution.

It is still unknown as to why some autistic individuals possess savant abilities, yet there are innumerable theories, and no evidence to prove the hypotheses right or wrong.

For example, Dr. Rimland deems that these individuals possess surprising concentration abilities and can focus their complete attention on specific areas of interest. To put it plainly, psychological researchers feel as though memory and cognition will reach a complete understanding when the autistic savant phenomena is no longer a mystery.

As a whole, the show can be referenced to "Rain Man," the original known representation of an "autistic savant," and since the 1988 release of the film the notion of how these individuals are wired has sparked many interests. With that in mind, it is easier to see the structure of the show and how the inner workings of each episode affect the characters, and viewers alike.

The main aspect I pull from this show is that Dr. Murphy is seen as somebody who is different compared to the preliminary and inducted doctors and still combats his personal demons all the while.

The pilot episode introduces the Dr. Murphy in an airport--eventually saving a child's life and attempts to get into St. Barnaba's Hospital in San Jose, California once he arrived. His caretaker Dr. Glassman vouches that he is capable and aside from his disabilities, the person inside deserves a chance.



Much like the prejudices of cognitive health; which is a rather unprecedented topic, gender, and racial biases exist that have other characters learn a lesson as well and it is key to see how it influences the psyche of those involved.

As the show proceeded and developed further, we see more growth and influence from his surroundings: both on an intrapersonal and interpersonal level. The scars from his abusive father and death of his brother still have a say in his life, which is another reason as to why he tries hard and battles his autistic tendencies (as best as autistically possible) to overcome his downfalls.



Finally, by the time the mid-season finale rolled around, it's interesting to see how much momentum Dr. Murphy has gained; the impact he's had on patients, colleagues, even a friend that lives in his apartment building. This episode truly hit home as a patient (a haughty professional gamer named Bobby) was required to get a tendon in his arm operated on; which freed the patient's mindset that all must go on, regardless of the pain.

Another problem resulted from a solution and the next agenda was operating on his brain-stem to rid of existing cancer; resulting in paralysis on his left side. Aside from that Dr. Murphy has received emotional support through his many conversations with Bobby and even came to the conclusion that nobody has the authority in saying what he, as an autistic, and an individual is capable of doing.

Bobby has been the only character to be truly empowering his Shaun's eyes; which stems from Bobby's own denial of accepting what he cannot control and choosing to see the glass half full. Shaun takes everything he's experienced thus far, including his conversations with Bobby to Dr. Glassman where he blatantly declared that psychiatrist appointments are not what he wants and that his own decisions should be weighed with a bit more respect.

As much of a “savant” Shaun is, it is apparent that his social skills are lacking, so picture being under the microscope on a constant trip of approval constantly trying to prove your worth. Then in one instant, a patient, that drops in sees the potential and the struggle that others refuse to take the time to acknowledge and respect.




In total, the show is a must-watch and you will do justice from viewing it yourself. As a takeaway: think of all we experience in our lives, the pros, and cons. Multiply that with being on the spectrum and held at arm's length in terms of being deemed inadequate and subjugated with a label that reads psychopathology and dependency creeping up on all fronts.

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Living Life With A Chronic Illness No One Can See

Sometimes what people can't see is the hardest to explain.

You never really expect that it will happen to you. My sister has one, so I thought one in the family was enough. But sure enough, when I was a junior in high school, I was diagnosed with a chronic skin condition.

It made my skin horribly painful to be in, and I decided I hated my own body for attacking me and leaving me defenseless. What was worse was there is no cure for my condition and barely any research on the subject. It’s hard to explain to other people and downright embarrassing. It almost looks like an STD and is horribly difficult to show other people, so I barely have.

One of the only known ways of preventing it is to not wear tight clothing. In high school, my school uniform was khaki pants that were not breathable, and you could see if I bled through them. I got a doctor's note to be able to wear yoga pants, but that left me vulnerable for people’s stares and questions as to why I got to wear yoga pants. Explaining to people that under my pants and shirts I was exposed to basically raw skin was not going to fly, so I opted for laughing along to their comments or the ever so simple “injury” excuse.

It wasn’t until I found a Facebook page with people who were also struggling that I finally felt not alone. Through the Facebook page, I have found solutions to this problem that other people have tried and tested and I have in turn tried and tested also. Since few doctors know what it is, I have tried every dermatologist possible for some sort of solution.

With the extreme option being a skin graft, I have had to seriously contemplate my life decisions, such as going back to school. I go to school in an area where there aren’t many doctors and the dermatologist came one Friday a month. Safe to say I didn’t choose the best option for my care.

It comes and goes in terms of severity, so I have had months of feeling great followed by weeks of barely being able to move. Although it seems like there’s nothing to be done, I have worked to educate my own doctors and seek treatment plans. I have fundraised for research and donated to other causes that might help provide relief for my condition and others suffering.

At the end of the day, it makes me stronger and makes me a fighter.

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