I'm Glad My Parents Spanked Me

I'm Glad My Parents Spanked Me

You cut the theatrics when I was a kid, which cut them as I grow into an adult.

Working with the public has taught me so much. It has taught me to appreciate cleanliness, friends with their own pools and most of all, my parent’s discipline. There’s so many kids who constantly run, break the rules or just all around wreak havoc.

I can remember throwing a tantrum in the middle of my local grocery store because I wanted to eat Scooby Snacks for dinner instead of the vegetables my mom had picked out. My mom told me that if I didn’t stop acting like I was, she would not hesitate to spank me. I didn’t believe her, but I did when she swatted my behind.

When my sister and I couldn’t wait to play with our best friends across the street, my mom always told us to look both ways before crossing. After telling us multiple times, we proceeded to run without looking and narrowly avoided getting hit by a car, by way of mom picking us up around and pulling us back. We didn’t forget that, nor the spanking we received for not listening. My parents knew the line between discipline and abuse and they never crossed it, just made us grateful for what had by letting us know that it could be worse.

But our discipline did not stick to spanking; there were timeouts, there were nights were we went to bed without dinner because we refused to eat the dinner set for us.

My mom was also a fan of taking a page out of others' books, namely the directors of The Parent Trap. With four girls all within four years of each other, my mom had finally had it with bickering, shoving and the annoyance we caused. When she came into the house with a maniacal glint, we should have known that hell was upon us. Instead, we continued to fight with each other and continue the behavior that got in trouble in the first place. Much like Hallie and Annie begin to love each other and overcome their differences while stuck in their little cabin, four girls sleeping in one room turned from Satan’s daydream to afternoons filled with jumping on the bed (sorry, Mom), late nights staying up talking and a close bond that is still intact seven years later, despite moving off to different states for college.

My parents made us sit down and do our homework, and even helped us with it (hint: they are smarter than a fifth-grader). Now, I am able to attend a nice school in Florida and enjoy being admitted into my competitive program because my mom and dad and step-dad sat me down and helped me. Their explaining how photosynthesis worked turned into my explaining the process of blood pressure regulation all these years later. I am able to discipline myself now because I had the discipline from the start.

And perhaps most importantly, my parents teaching me right from wrong, and enforcing the difference through the timeouts, the spankings, the bed without dinner, is that I stay out of trouble. I have never been arrested, never done drugs, never wanted to walk on the wild side because I know that despite the fact that I am now the same height as my mom, she still can tan my hide.

7-year-old me would be aghast, but thanks for spanking me.

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1. They will do anything for you, literally.

My stepdad has done any and every thing for me. From when I was little until now. He was and still is my go-to. If I was hungry, he would get me food. If something was broken, he would fix it. If I wanted something, he would normally always find a way to get it. He didn't spoil me (just sometimes), but he would make sure that I was always taken care of.

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2. Life lessons.

Yup, the tough one. My stepdad has taught me things that I would have never figured out on my own. He has stood beside me through every mistake. He has been there to pick me up when I am down. My stepdad is like the book of knowledge: crazy hormonal teenage edition. Boy problems? He would probably make me feel better. He just always seemed to know what to say. I think that the most important lesson that I have learned from my stepdad is: to never give up. My stepdad has been through three cycles of leukemia. He is now in remission, yay!! But, I never heard him complain. I never heard him worry and I never saw him feeling sorry for himself. Through you, I found strength.

3. He loved me as his own.

The big one, the one that may seem impossible to some step parents. My stepdad is not actually my stepdad, but rather my dad. I will never have enough words to explain how grateful I am for this man, which is why I am attempting to write this right now. It takes a special kind of human to love another as if they are their own. There had never been times where I didn't think that my dad wouldn't be there for me. It was like I always knew he would be. He introduces me as his daughter, and he is my dad. I wouldn't have it any other way. You were able to show me what family is.

So, dad... thanks. Thanks for being you. Thanks for being awesome. Thanks for being strong. Thanks for loving me. Thanks for loving my mom. Thanks for giving me a wonderful little sister. Thanks for being someone that I can count on. Thanks for being my dad.

I love you!

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7 Life Lessons My Parents Taught Me

Your parents have been there from the start, and have no doubt shaped you into the person you are today


I'm so grateful for everything that my parents have done for me. Even more so, I'm incredibly grateful for all of the life lessons over the years. At this point, they've taught me way too many life lessons to list here. However, I thought I'd take the time to write down seven of the most important ones!

1. Be Respectful. 

If there is one thing my dad has instilled in me from a young age, it's to always be respectful. I have always been impressed with my dad's ability to stay cool and calm in situations where that's the last thing anyone would expect from him, and he has taught me the importance of maintaining a respectful and mature attitude, even when life gives you the sourest lemons.

2. Be bold. 

My mom is the coolest woman I know, and she has always taken on life the only way she knows how: with unbelievable boldness and fierceness. Being bold means not being afraid to be different or to stand out, and my mom has taught me how badass it is to be the true version of yourself.

3. Be forgiving. 

Arguments and fights are unavoidable parts of life, and ever since I was little, my dad has consistently reminded me of how important it is to pick your battles. Knowing when it's time to pick up the pieces and move on is essential in order to be a forgiving person, not only to yourself but to others as well.

4. Be generous.

Growing up, I was fortunate enough to be spoiled by my parents. Not only was I lucky enough to go on vacations and get beautiful gifts around my birthday and holidays, but I was especially lucky enough to be spoiled by my parent's love and kindness. Being generous, not only financially, but with your ability to love and respect other people is something I am so thankful my parents have taught me.

5. Work hard. 

Both my mom and dad are incredibly hard-working people. Growing up, there were times where my dad worked 12-hour days, and my mom juggled work, household chores, and taking care of me. Even though their hard work resulted in some sacrifices, they always did what was best for my sister and I. My parents have naturally pushed me to be a hardworking person in all aspects of my life, and I think it's a very admirable quality.

6. Be kind.

My dad is the type of person who will always stop in an intersection to give money to a homeless person, and my mom is the type of woman to never think twice about sacrificing her own needs to help others. Both my parents have shown me, along with the rest of the world, what it means to be kind and selfless, and I can only hope I will one day be as good at it as they are.

7. Stand up for yourself. 

Before I came to college, I often found myself doing what everyone else wanted me to do. I jumped into things quickly, hoping it would please others and make them like me. However, once I got to college, I quickly called my mom on the phone, crying because I regretted some decisions I had made. My mom told me how important it is to stand up for yourself, learn to say no, and only do the things you really want to do. Learning to live your life for you, and not let other people rule your universe is key to being happy, and I'm fortunate that my mom helped me realize this.

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