Over time I realized that men will often slide in your messages or just approach you and ask to "chill" "hang out" or "watch a movie." Ladies, if a man asks you this,,, RUN SIS!
This is an unintentional test of trying to see what type of girl you are. Now if you agree to this chill session, this doesn't mean your a hoe or easy, it just means you haven't realized your worth yet.
Do not settle for a man who wants to hang out and chill on the first time meeting. Once you know your worth, you won't have to settle for a four-hour movie date at his momma house, while watching some uninteresting movie on Netflix as he subtly makes sexual passes at you.
When you know your worth, you will realize how he's supposed to approach you. A man should approach you with respect, compliments, and charm. Then if he's interested and wants to see you, he will ask you on a public date and pay for the date.
Don't let these boys fool you will the phrase "well I want to get to know you first, then we can go out," If he says that, don't take it wrong, just let him know you can get to know each other through text or calls, but once you feel like you know me, that's when we can go on a real date.
This man may sway you, and try to convince you that you both should get to know each other physically and if he's saying things like this. that is your que to RUN SIS!
First snatch that free meal though... then dip out... BOONK GANG!
All jokes aside, but once you realise your worth, you'll see that you deserve more than a cheap netflix date, that he didn't even pay for because he's using that 30 day free trial, just block his number and move on to bigger and better things.
