Tori Kelly Saved My Hair

Tori Kelly Saved My Hair

Just when I was about to give up, she saved the day.

She doesn't know it, but Tori Kelly saved my hair.

When I was a little girl, my mother struggled to curl my hair. She would make me sit in curlers for what felt like hours, and when she pulled them hair was still straight. However, in middle school I noticed my hair getting curlier, but no one taught me how to take care of my hair. My sister told me to scrunch my hair in mousse, and everyone has seen that result: crunchy curls. So instead, I would dry my hair straight. For years, nobody knew I had curly hair.

Then one day in high school, I wore my hair natural and people didn't recognize me. From that day on, I wore my hair curly. My curls are practically apart of my identity, now. Any of my friends will tell you that I take personal offense to people who say my hair looks great straight.

But my hair is also kind of a unicorn when it comes to curls. And by unicorn, I mean I have fine, thin, non-textured curls. My hair slips out of braids, and my curls need a little encouragement. Not enough product and my hair looks flat. Too much product and it weighs my hair down. I've tried a water-mousse spritz, gel, several styling creams and different shampoos. I have scoured Pinterest for hours trying to find a solution. At one point, I was using six products in order to achieve my desired look.

So when all hope was nearly lost, I watched Tori Kelly perform and immediately fell in love with her hair. My mom said, "Her people probably spend hours to make it look like that." I thought, No way, it looks too natural.

So I looked her up. Thank goodness, somebody had already asked her about her hair. Tori shared the secret to her luxurious curls: sea salt spray and a diffuser. I had tried both individually, but never together.

My life has not been the same since. The compliments I get now are almost on the daily. I am confident to call my self a curly-haired girl. I can style my hair with pride.

Due to all the time I have spent researching, I know a lot about curls. And if your curls need a little help, try these steps:

1. Moisture. Get a moisturizing shampoo and conditioner. Then put a moisturizing cream or coconut oil in your hair. (Without it, your hair tries to get moistures from the air. That means frizz.)

2. Layers. Layers help separate the curls, which create more volume.

3. Different length. Length weighs down curls. So if your hair needs taming, grow it out. If the curls need to be coaxed, cut it shorter.

Thank you, Tori Kelly. You saved my hair.

You can read the article she talks about her hair routine here.

Cover Image Credit: Sarah Barlow

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If You've Ever Been Called Overly-Emotional Or Too Sensitive, This Is For You

Despite what they have told you, it's a gift.

Emotional: a word used often nowadays to insult someone for their sensitivity towards a multitude of things.

If you cry happy tears, you're emotional. If you express (even if it's in a healthy way) that something is bothering you, you're sensitive. If your hormones are in a funk and you just happen to be sad one day, you're emotional AND sensitive.

Let me tell you something that goes against everything people have probably ever told you. Being emotional and being sensitive are very, very good things. It's a gift. Your ability to empathize, sympathize, and sensitize yourself to your own situation and to others' situations is a true gift that many people don't possess, therefore many people do not understand.

Never let someone's negativity toward this gift of yours get you down. We are all guilty of bashing something that is unfamiliar to us: something that is different. But take pride in knowing God granted this special gift to you because He believes you will use it to make a difference someday, somehow.

This gift of yours was meant to be utilized. It would not be a part of you if you were not meant to use it. Because of this gift, you will change someone's life someday. You might be the only person that takes a little extra time to listen to someone's struggle when the rest of the world turns their backs.

In a world where a six-figure income is a significant determinant in the career someone pursues, you might be one of the few who decides to donate your time for no income at all. You might be the first friend someone thinks to call when they get good news, simply because they know you will be happy for them. You might be an incredible mother who takes too much time to nurture and raise beautiful children who will one day change the world.

To feel everything with every single part of your being is a truly wonderful thing. You love harder. You smile bigger. You feel more. What a beautiful thing! Could you imagine being the opposite of these things? Insensitive and emotionless?? Both are unhealthy, both aren't nearly as satisfying, and neither will get you anywhere worth going in life.

Imagine how much richer your life is because you love other's so hard. It might mean more heartache, but the reward is always worth the risk. Imagine how much richer your life is because you are overly appreciative of the beauty a simple sunset brings. Imagine how much richer your life is because you can be moved to tears by the lessons of someone else's story.

Embrace every part of who you are and be just that 100%. There will be people who criticize you for the size of your heart. Feel sorry for them. There are people who are dishonest. There are people who are manipulative. There are people who are downright malicious. And the one thing people say to put you down is "you feel too much." Hmm...

Sounds like more of a compliment to me. Just sayin'.

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5 Inexpensive Websites For Summer Clothes

If you are looking to online shop for your summer closet, check out these stores.


Summer is here and so is a whole new category of fashion; high waisted swimsuits, mom jeans, graphic tees, chunky sneakers, and many more styles that have become popularized in 2019. If you are trying to save some money while keeping up with the latest fashion trends, online shopping on the right platforms is a great way to get the most bang for your buck!

Listed are the five most cost-effective online stores that each have their advantages and disadvantages so you can spruce up your summer lookbook. The best way to get the most clothing items on these online stores for the cheapest is to search for promotion codes online and take advantage of any email sign up deals, student discounts, and general sales they are currently promoting.

1. Zaful

If you are looking for a very cheap option so you can put the most in your cart, Zaful is your best bet. This store is stocked with everything under the sun including swimsuits, tops, bottoms, jewelry, shoes, hats, and more starting at 4.99. Zaful offers 15% off of your first order as well as free shipping for orders over $49, so you can fill your cart with more items than you think you are paying for.

2. Nasty Gal

Nasty Gal is a great store for quality items that will live a very long life in your closet. Although the prices seem high at first glance, the online platform has constant deals occurring such as their current 50% off everything sale as well as their 60% off everything for students sale. Nasty Gal is a great brand to build your closet essentials due to the great condition and material of their clothing items.

3. Pretty Little Thing

Pretty Little Thing is a great online store to shop for summer events because of their beautiful dresses and tops. I recommend purchasing occasion wear from this brand because a lot of their loungewear and regular items are overpriced for what they are worth. In the sale section of Pretty Little Thing, you can find many dresses and dress pants for over 55% off. If you are looking for a few fancier outfits for summer occasions, check out the sale section of Pretty Little Thing to get some nice looks for cheap.

4. Misguided

Misguided is an online store that has a unique vibe in the clothing they sell that is worth a browse because of their eccentric and fun styles. The platform has recurring sales that range from 25 to 50 percent off, which allows you to get twice the amount that you pay for. If your style includes graphic t-shirts, oversized t-shirt dresses, and good quality loungewear, Misguided offers great quality items with low prices to spruce up your summer outfit aesthetic.

5. Boohoo

If you love rocking matching sets and co-ords, look no further that Boohoo for the best patterns, styles, and prices. Boohoo usually has a 50% off sale going on, which goes a long way when you can purchase a matching two-piece set for as low as $20. Although Boohoo sells beauty products and accessories, their sets and outfits are the best items to get your money's worth in quality and quantity.

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