They say that the hardest parts of life are making small talk and figuring out taxes, but I can think of one more to tack on to that list: surviving high school. It is quite the feat. As a second semester senior, I am proud to say that I endured a four-year journey marked by epic failures and moments of triumph that prepared me to gracefully enter adulthood. Sort of. Thankfully, senioritis has allowed me just enough time to reflect on these past four years of my life and formulate a list of tips to help any high school student survive and thrive. Not that I have technically done either of those, considering I still have a month until graduation to drop the ball. But, in any case, here is my list of should haves, could haves, and dids that led me to the most pivotal point in my life:
1. Get involved in extracurriculars.
Extracurricular activities are a great way to meet new people and develop your interests outside of the classroom. These activities could include sports teams, clubs, or committees, and the meetings or practices that are held after school for these activities will certainly give your schedule the structure it needs. These outside activities will also help create a well-rounded high school experience!
2. Take courses that are geared towards your strengths and interests.
It's important to feel challenged by your course load, but it's more important to know your limits. Do not fall into the notion that you have to take all honors or AP courses to get into college. Rather, acknowledge who you are as a student and gear your schedule towards where you excel or struggle. That way, you'll have a reasonably demanding course load, but you'll likely enjoy and get more out of the classes.
3. Develop relationships with teachers and administration.
Get to know who runs the school. Stay on good terms with the principal and make sure all of your teachers know your name and are aware of your efforts and interests. Administration is there to help you; take advantage of the endless resources and support they provide. This will enrich your high school experience tremendously (and will be of great convenience to you once you have to ask for letters of recommendation)!
4. Work hard, play hard.
High school isn’t all about schoolwork; have some fun and try new things! Within boundaries, of course, because some “fun” can be more destructive than it is enjoyable. School always comes first, but just remember, these times are filled with opportunity and little responsibility, so make memories with great people by your side!
5. Surround yourself with good people.
The people you choose to surround yourself with have the potential to make or break your journey. Spend time with those who lift you higher and encourage you to be the best version of yourself. Don’t worry about popularity; stick to the people who respect and care for you.
6. Be nice to everyone.
What goes around comes around, my friends, so be kind to every person you meet in your four years of high school (even the people you aren’t fond of). Try not to get involved in drama and always be the bigger person -- this will lift you higher! Remember that each and every student in the school is fighting their own battle. Small acts of kindness -- a smile, an invite, a helping hand -- can go a long way, so spread the love.
7. Be you!
High school is a significant point in developing you. Do not change who you are to fit in or worry about the opinions of others. This is a time to pursue your greatest interests and learn who you are in so many ways.
I promise you won't be quizzed on that.
Good luck, kids!
