How To Set Work/Life Boundaries
Start writing a post
Student Life

How To Set Work/Life Boundaries

Setting boundaries can be a seemingly impossible thing for many people, myself included. When it comes to 2020 and working/doing school setting boundaries is essential.

35
How To Set Work/Life Boundaries
Photo by Mikey Harris on Unsplash

Here are 5 ways to set boundaries to make your life easier and hopefully help your mental health.

1. Set Work Hours and Set Downtime Hours

Curb Your Enthusiasm Eating GIFGiphy

There's always going to be another email, assignment or emergency.

Set strict hours for yourself when it comes to work to avoid feeling like you're working 24/7, probably because you are pretty much doing so.

Setting strict working / off hours will help you feel more accomplished with the time you are allocating to work and way more relaxed during the times you should be focusing on you, whether that be running errands, getting your hair done or catching up on your favorite show.

2. Say No

Saying no is one of the absolute hardest things for me to do. Even if I am completely drowning, I'll agree to dinner with friends or another babysitting job or whatever else it is that is asked of me.

It's great to be wanted and/or needed. What's not great is working yourself into the ground and becoming burnt out.

Say no. It's better for everyone.

3. Take Time Off

Whether this be a late start to the day, an early end to the day or a day off, it is SO important to take time off. If you do not take time off, you are going to become miserable with your routine and start resenting everything you are doing.

I once worked 3 months straight without a single day off. Never again.

4. Take Time Away From Your Phone/Laptop/DevicesĀ 

It is so important to take some time away from your devices so that you are not overwhelmed by the thought that someone might reach out needing something. I recently spent 2 hours revamping a room with two girls I babysit and I left my phone in the other room. It felt amazing to not be weighed down by constant notifications!

When you have a device on you, or even near you, you are weighed down by it, even if subconsciously. Take time away from your devices, trust me. It will do wonders for your stress and anxiety levels.

5. Focus on Your Accomplishments, Not Your FailuresĀ 

Instead of thinking about it as: I woke up late today and lost so much time I could have been working, think of it as: I woke up late today because my body needed rest and I was incredibly productive when I started working.

Life is all about balance and realistically the average day is not going to be picture perfect. Take the time to embrace your accomplishments, no matter how big or small. You're doing great!

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
ā€‹a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

87046
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

53127
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments