Oh yes, it's that time of year! It's getting a bit chilly, the holiday lights and decorations are being put up, Christmas music blasting in the background, and yes you guessed it, couples coming out of nowhere. It's 'cuffing szn' as they say but are you wanting to be cuffed because you're wanting a relationship or just because it's that time of year again.
Let's be real, we all want to take some cute insta-worthy pictures or be snuggled up drinking some hot cocoa and watching some Christmas movies with a significant other. 'Tis the season?
But let's start asking some questions that we need answers to…
1. It's Cold; do you need a significant other or just a cuddle buddy?
GiphyYeah a boyfriend/girlfriend would be nice to cuddle with but there's also always extra blankets or some grab your pup and cuddle up with them?
2. So many cute pic opportunities downtown; who can you share these memories with?
GiphyFirst of all, friends. Your girl gang or other pals are always down to spend time with you. AND if it entails, some cute candid photo ops?? Even better.
3. Cute Christmas Baskets; Do you want a significant other to spoil or do you just want to do it because it's the upcoming trend?
GiphyYes, definitely agree. Lots of hype and super cute idea. Buuut why don't you just do a secret Santa exchange with your friends and exchange some cute Christmas baskets. Put a budget and fill that basket with goodies.
4. Going home for the holidays; Are your family members going to ask if you have a significant other AGAIN?
Awkward Miley Cyrus GIF - Find & Share on GIPHYGiphyYup. It'll happen every year. Don't just look for a boyfriend/girlfriend because you want your family to stop asking. Because trust me, they'll ask any opportunity they get.
Just because almost everyone around you is in a relationship doesn't mean you need to be in one. Enjoy your time spending it with your friends and making new memories. People come and go just like seasons so why stress about finding someone now? Save your money, cuddle your pets, take cute holiday edition pics with your pals, tell your family that school takes up too much time as it is, now imagine adding another person to the mix, and remember that you sometimes you may not want a relationship. Sometimes you just want the benefits of a relationship and not the work it comes with. A relationship comes when you least expect it, and if it comes during the holiday season, then hey, good for you. Until then? Sing some Christmas karaoke with your friends and enjoy the holidays.