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I like to think I know a lot about relationships, but the truth of the matter is, I really don't. One area where I'm not struggling? Ghosting. I've been ghosted PLENTY of times, and I've also ghosted people more than I'd like to admit.

Being ghosted can cause a multitude of feelings for an individual. Sometimes we don't care, while other times it hits us HARD. Here are seventeen thoughts every young woman has running through their mind when someone ghosts them.

1. Wait, am I actually being ghosted?!

I always jump right to denial.

2. Do not send that double text. Do NOT DO IT.

*Sends twenty-three texts without a reply just in case they forgot to text back, just got busy, or didn't have a response to the last twelve*

3. It's only been a day since I've heard back, maybe they just got busy...

I mean, they always made it a priority to text me back before we hooked up but now I'm just thinking they're busy...cause that happens...

4. Will sending them a funny meme make them reply?

Memes are always worth a reply, right?

5. Welp, I've officially texted them three times without a reply...#ProbablyGhosted

Not gonna make me quite give up hope, tho...

6. That's fine, I didn't really like them anyways.

This is always one of my first thoughts. I mean, I totally wasn't just crushing on them or anything...

7. I'm going to text John from Stats and see if he wants to come chill, that'll get this guy off my mind...

Because hooking up with someone else is always a good idea.

8. Back to Tinder I go, I guess.

I've probably spent half of my life swiping on this app...

9. How many cats are too many cats? Asking for a friend cause I'm about to have 20.

Cats are forever. Boys are for never.

10. He isn't worth wasting my alcohol on him but I'm about to take seven shots to get him off my mind.

Cue the girls' night and vodka...

11. Drunk texts him again because the seven shots made me miss him instead of get over him.

Are we that surprised this happened?!

12. Time to post a bomb selfie on my story so he'll see what he's missing out on.

*Checks it every four minutes to see if he's viewed it yet...*

13. Hopefully, my siblings end up having kids because I know I'll never make my mom a grandma.

Sorry mom.

14. Throwback to when I thought I'd find the love of my life in college.

This is the BIGGEST joke out there.

15. Yeah, I've for sure been ghosted. It's fine. Totally fine.

Not like it hasn't happened before.

16. Cries in bed while listening to Taylor Swift.

Oh Taylor, how you get me in my feels every time...

17. OOO, that boy is cute, I'm gonna hit him up...

And so the cycle continues...

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*Cries in bed while listening to Taylor Swift*

1. Wait, am I actually being ghosted?!

2. Do not send that double text. Do NOT DO IT.

3. It's only been a day since I've heard back, maybe they just got busy...

4. Will sending them a funny meme make them reply?

5. Welp, I've officially texted them three times without a reply...#ProbablyGhosted

6. That's fine, I didn't really like them anyways.

7. I'm going to text John from Stats and see if he wants to come chill, that'll get this guy off my mind...

8. Back to Tinder I go, I guess.

9. How many cats are too many cats? Asking for a friend cause I'm about to have 20.

10. He isn't worth wasting my alcohol on him but I'm about to take seven shots to get him off my mind.

11. *Drunk texts him again because the seven shots made me miss him instead of get over him.*

12. Time to post a bomb selfie on my story so he'll see what he's missing out on.

13. Hopefully, my siblings end up having kids because I know I'll never make my mom a grandma.

14. Throwback to when I thought I'd find the love of my life in college.

15. Yeah, I've for sure been ghosted. It's fine. Totally fine.

16. *Cries in bed while listening to Taylor Swift.*

17. OOO, that boy is cute, I'm gonna hit him up...

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The Best Lines from the Fab Four

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all I got to give if you say you'll love me too. I may not have a lot to give but what I got I'll give to you. I don't care too much for money. Money can't buy me love

All you need is love, love is all you need

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, Take these broken wings and learn to fly. All your life, You were only waiting for this moment to arise

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

Obviously the best superpower.

There have been many lessons learned.

1. The importance of traditions.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

3. How to give back.

4. What the word "community" really means.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

10. How to work for what I want.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

12. How to be humble.

13. To be well-rounded.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

16. To be prepared for anything.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

18. How to be creative.

19. To brush off gossip.

I have never been so thankful to know you.

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Attend the first class

Keep attending class

Have a backup plan

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