Spending Feb. 14 with that one special person? Can't relate. I'm 21 years old and yes, I have never spent Valentine's Day with anyone but me, myself and I.
But guess what? I am more than okay with that and if you're in the same boat as me, then you should be, too.
Let's face it, relationships in our generation are extremely difficult to come across in the first place and when I say relationships, I mean REAL relationships. Not the BS talking phases and hanging out occasionally yet simultaneously not knowing what exactly is going on between the two of you. I'm talking actual steady, committed relationships.
In my opinion, I think it's a little ridiculous that on this one day of the year, people automatically decide to get all worked up about being single... as if they haven't been single the other 364 days. At the same time, however, I understand it due to the fact that that's what society has trained us to do, right?
Not to worry, if you're feeling a little down about not having anyone to spend this "special day" with, I've got some tips for you:
1. Remind yourself that you're saving more money than you would be if you had a date.
Dates can obviously get expensive, especially Valentine's Day dates. So be happy you don't have to spend any amount on anyone and your pockets will thank you later!
2. Hang out with your other single friends!
You can't possibly be the only single one. Get a group of your other single friends together and just have a wine/movie night; even vent about how much you hate the opposite sex if you really need to! You'll feel so much better.
3. Remember that you'd rather be single than be spending time with a jerk.
You're way better off alone than spending time with someone that doesn't even treat you the way you deserve to be treated in the first place. Trust me.
4. Put on some comfortable clothes and just relax.
What sounds better? Being in an uncomfortable outfit with uncomfortable shoes that haven't been broken in yet? Or a big t-shirt and sweatpants? I think we all know the answer to this one.
5. Treat yourself!
Go splurge on all the candy in the Valentine's Day section, make cookies, get Chipotle; whatever your heart desires! This is a day dedicated to love? Well, we all love food, so why not celebrate it in this manner, right?
6. Force yourself that you can get other important things done instead.
Obviously, as adults, we're all busy with anything and everything. This day is the perfect chance to get things done and keep your mind off your singleness!
7. �Remember that it's JUST ANOTHER DAY.
You were single on Feb. 13 just as much as you will be on Feb. 14. Please don't beat yourself up about it. Love for others should be spread equally every day throughout the year.
