Everyone goes through a heartbreak. Whether it be a boyfriend/girlfriend, best friend, family, etc. We all experience that type of hurt. It is a feeling that nobody wants to experience because well who likes to be sad? I've been through it before and yeah it really sucks.
A lot.
However, you pick yourself up, get through it and eventually you move on. You become stronger because of it. Being hurt by someone is a learning experience. With every breakup, heartbreak, or whatever you want to call it, each one of them has taught me something about myself. Sure it wasn't fun to go through, but I was happy that I went through it. Happy may not be the best word to describe my feelings because I wasn't happy during the timeframe of me being sad. But, after I recovered from the sadness, I was grateful because I became a better person if that makes sense.
People teach you how to deal with a broken heart. There are numerous of songs and an abundance of articles that talk about being dumped and how to recover from it. Read any Seventeen or Cosmopolitan magazine. I guarantee you that at least one of those articles is going to talk about how to deal with a broken heart.
No one teaches you how to break someone else's heart.
No one tells you what it is like to hurt someone you care about so deeply. How do you do that? You always hear parents telling their children that they are going to be a heartbreaker when they grow up. However, no one realizes that being on the heartbreaker side is awful as well, especially when you love the person you're hurting. Sometimes I wish that I was getting my heart broken instead of it being the other way around.
I say this because I know that if I get hurt, I'll eventually pick myself up and keep it moving. It may not be that easy, but I know that I'm not going to stay down forever. Not to say that the other person will forever be depressed but I hate knowing that I am the reason that someone is hurting. I love making people smile and laugh. I don't want to be the reason why someone cries themselves to sleep at night or punches the wall out of sheer anger. I never want to hurt anyone. The heartbreaker, if you want to call it that, goes through hurt but so does the heartbreaker. Just knowing that you are about to crush someone does something to you. Unless you're just a heartless person. I know for me, it makes me feel so incredibly guilty even when I know it has to be done.
I guess you just have to believe that the other person will be okay. I mean they aren't babies but... It's still not easy.
