8 Steps To Being A Lady Boss

8 Steps To Being A Lady Boss

It's time for all you #BossLadies out there to woman-up

inition of Boss Lady:

1 A bada** woman with high standards for herself and others

2 A woman who believes in her capability to own her own future

3 Someone who leads with compassion, integrity and heart

With all the negativity, confusion and anger out there trending on the ever-so-powerful internet, there is ONE trend that I just cannot get enough of. The rise of the #bosslady. I see it everywhere now, women empowering themselves and each other to woman-up and be a boss.

So you may be wondering...how can I become a boss lady?

Well I have the answer for you, just follow these eight steps and you will be well on your way to being a super fly #bosslady.

1. Dress To Impress (Yourself)

You always hear the phrase "dress to impress", well I have decided to change it to "dress to impress YOURSELF". A real #bosslady doesn't dress up or down for anyone, but herself. Now don't walk into work with sweats on quoting my article as backup when your manager asks where your uniform is. But never feel like you have to dress in order to impress someone else. Some feel powerful in jeans and a t-shirt, others in a skirt and heels. Whatever task you have to tackle for the day whether it be that Organic Chemistry Midterm or an interview for that internship you really want, put on clothes that will make you feel not only confident, but like a boss.

2. Learn To Say "No"

When you are in a leadership role, it's really hard to say "no". I know this from experience because I hate to disappoint people (I mean who doesn't?). But a true #bosslady knows her limits and when to take some time for herself. Spreading yourself too thin by taking on every little task does NOT make you a good leader, it just makes you tired. Delegate to people you trust, prioritize tasks and know when something is just not meant for you.

3. Know When To Say "Yes"

Never pass up an opportunity just because you are scared or unsure. Sometimes in order to be successful we need to take a leap of faith. Boss ladies are ALWAYS ready to jump and say "yes" to a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.

4. Lead From Behind

A good leader is not one who charges forward without a second look back. A good leader is one who guides from behind. Meaning you are only as strong as your weakest link, a #bosslady knows to identify and support those struggling and lift them up to where they need to be.

Lead with a steady hand, a calm voice and a purpose.

5. Dream Big, Do Bigger

It is so important to dream big, but you owe it to yourself and the world to make those big dreams a true reality. Dream up plans and ideas so great and amazing then do yourself a favor and go BIG when putting those dreams into play.

6. Always Remember That 'Empathy' Is Your Greatest Tool

Being understanding of the situations of those around you will not only help you connect better with people you care about, but it will make you a more relatable and reliable leader.

7. But Take No SH*T

A #bosslady is kind and understanding, but never lets anyone ever walk all over them. Be confident in yourself and know when others are trying to take advantage of you. Believe in yourself and know that you are right.

8. Never Forget You Are A Goddess

And no one can ever take that away from you.

Now go out and run the world, Boss Lady!

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A Letter To My Go-To Aunt

Happiness is having the best aunt in the world.

I know I don't say it enough, so let me start off by saying thank you.

You'll never understand how incredibly blessed I am to have you in my life. You'll also never understand how special you are to me and how much I love you.

I can't thank you enough for countless days and nights at your house venting, and never being too busy when I need you. Thank you for the shopping days and always helping me find the best deals on the cutest clothes. For all the appointments I didn't want to go to by myself. Thank you for making two prom days and a graduation party days I could never forget. Thank you for being overprotective when it comes to the men in my life.

Most importantly, thank you for being my support system throughout the numerous highs and lows my life has brought me. Thank you for being honest even when it isn't what I want to hear. Thank you for always keeping my feet on the ground and keeping me sane when I feel like freaking out. Thank you for always supporting whatever dream I choose to chase that day. Thank you for being a second mom. Thank you for bringing me into your family and treating me like one of your own, for making me feel special because you do not have an obligation to spend time with me.

You've been my hero and role model from the time you came into my life. You don't know how to say no when family comes to you for help. You're understanding, kind, fun, full of life and you have the biggest heart. However, you're honest and strong and sometimes a little intimidating. No matter what will always have a special place in my heart.

There is no possible way to ever thank you for every thing you have done for me and will continue to do for me. Thank you for being you.

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12 Ways To Save Money During The Summer When All You Want Is To Spend It

Saving is important year round, but it's most important in the summer


Over the summer, everyone normally has more free time than during the year, and that means more time to spend more money. Saving money over the summer is important, not only so you can be prepared to pay for things in the future, but also so you can enjoy your summer and no be stressed about how much money you've spent. Saving money is something that should happen year round, but it's especially important to do in the summer.

1. Create a budget

Starting the summer off on the right foot is super important to stay on track throughout the rest of the summer. A budget is something that you should have year round, but it's important to adjust it for your summer plans.

2. And stick to it

Not only do you have to make a budget, but you have to stick to it. If you don't follow your budget, you're wasting time and money, and it's hard to keep on top of finances.

3. Take advantage of student discounts

During the summer, college students find themselves with a lot more free time than in the school year. When you're planning what to do with your extra time, make sure to look if the place offers student discounts or not. Why pay full price when you don't have to?

4. Don't always go out to eat

College students tend to spend time with their friends going out for food or for drinks, and that adds up fast. If you have friends over to cook dinner, it can be healthier and cheaper to do.

5. Sublet

If you have an apartment you're not going to be staying in, or need to stay in Columbus, it's beneficial both ways to sublet. Neither way do you have to pay full price on an apartment, and any discount, no matter how small, saves you money

6. Take day trips

Obviously, no one wants to stay in one place the whole summer, but travel is super expensive. By going on day trips you get to see more of the state or city, but you don't have to pay for lodging overnight. It's a good way to get out without eating into your budget.

7. Walk around

Columbus has great parks and trails that not enough people think about using when they're planning what they want to do. If you walk around outside, you can spend as much time you want there and you don't have to pay anything.

8. Split costs with friend

Do both of you need a Hulu and a Netflix account? Why not share the costs and the passwords with each other, so that you both can save some extra cash in the future. This doesn't just have to be with streaming services, but it can apply to food and parking costs as well.

9. Don't impulsively buy big items

Maybe you've worked a ton recently to start saving for summer, or you have graduation money flowing in. You feel like it doesn't matter how much you spend, but it does. If you hold off on those purchases, and you save your money, you'll be in a better spot financially at the end of the summer.

10. Get a job

The obvious one. If you're doing an unpaid internship or your normal job isn't offering you many hours, then getting a second job where you can work to have a little more money can help you achieve your savings goal.

11. Don't be too hard on yourself

The hardest part of setting goals is when you don't achieve them. Even if you haven't saved exactly as much as you wanted, making even a small change can help your financial wellbeing and can be enough to make small changes in the future.

12. Don't force yourself to make big changes

Everyone's saving tips to Millennials are to stop getting coffee every single day from places like Starbucks. While cutting down on spending in these ways will greatly help you save money, it's not the only thing that will help. There's no reason to make yourself miserable in order to follow the rules of someone else for a small change financially.

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