How To Handle The Holidays With Family Of A Different Political Party Than You
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How To Handle The Holidays With Family Of A Different Political Party Than You

Enjoy the hot cocoa, Christmas cookies, and family memories that the holiday season brings; not the heated political debates.

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How To Handle The Holidays With Family Of A Different Political Party Than You

The holiday season: a time of joy, hot cocoa, and heated political debates. Or at least that's how it is with my family. I know from the moment I enter my aunt's house that politics will be discussed and arguments may be had. See, I kind of figure this will happen even before the holiday season has started and I have gotten to my aunt's house. This entire year I would see my family members sharing articles or their opinions about the current political contenders and think, "Well, Christmas will be fun this year." That's because it's safe to say I don't share their same opinions. I greatly respect them, but know that if politics are brought up, things are going to get awkward. Now, I've been thinking about how to avoid the awkwardness for some time now, and have compiled a few tips on how to deal with family who may think politically different than me.

Smile and wave boys (or girls), smile and wave.

I personally struggle with stopping my mouth from opening and my opinion coming out, but when I'm with my family I learn to bite my tongue. You have to remember that you will not be able to change their political opinion, just like they won't be able to change yours. Just smile, remain calm and remember that presents haven't been opened yet.

Change the topic.

If a heated discussion is just around the corner, then just change the conversation topic (if you can). This can be difficult if you have a really stubborn uncle or aunt who wants to keep this debate going (we all have one), but when in doubt, bring up how you're doing in school or how you want that one recipe from your grandma. Change the conversation, and fingers crossed on avoiding the heat.

Go play with the little cousins (or the family pets).

Just avoid the "adult" table if you know they are discussing politics. Go play with your little cousins or siblings and watch a Christmas movie or play games. Enjoy the holidays and avoid getting upset by differing opinions. Plus, kids are so cute and make for fun snapchats!

When dealing with family of differing opinions, it's best to remember that you only see these family members on occasion. It's not worth disrupting the peace to be the one with the loudest or largest political opinion. Enjoy your family and the holidays, and eat some sugar cookies and you will have a Merry Christmas.

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